Only just found this, but...if it makes a difference, his gaming online was mentioned at the funeral service as having been a great and positive part in his life. The friends he made there, and more (er, but not any enemies ;). The funeral was good, and his views on euthanasia and politics were celebrated there.
I also had a lot of people's RL names/Online names added to the 'guestbook' there. Can't give a list, but chances are if you commented on his Facebook or online about being not able to be present at the funeral, I found you and added you (I had dozens).