Him? Seriously? Him? What conference? What time? Just go hey, Derp, due to your history, I don't think you'd be a good fit for admin, then do the toggles, then BAM you're done.
And stop with this level-headed courtroom bullshit, it's so painfully condescending. These are adults you're talking to, they're not throwing a tantrum, they're fucking shocked that you'd act this way after knowing you for so long.
It's INSANE how you're putting everything on Mietze. I don't know how you think you're going walk this back. The level of buckling down is astronomical. Banning Farfalla was like taking a capybara out with a warhead.
Anyway, ban me. What a shitshow. Shame on you.
Sincerely, some rando.