Generally, to be honest, I don't. I don't feel the need to force a scene to be enjoyable if I don't think it will be; I just sit it out.
I was starting to feel like the only one. :P
When I was younger and had FOMO, I would suffer through them just so I didn't omg get left out!!!
Nowadays? Enh. I make social scenes fun and enjoyable by not showing up and ruining them. :)