@Ghost the "writing with others" is the key factor here. I cannot tell you how many times I have encountered people who were very rude or thoughtless towards others because they did not understand why people were reacting negatively or avoiding them, even though they felt they were writing beautifully, and had to handhold them through understanding that process.
Writing skill and interest isn't really enough, and I would not want to set someone up like that. I would rather be honest with someone I am inviting in, as to what they can realistically expect, and also thinking also of value added to the community.
There are lots of nice and awesome people who will not take to the medium, and some people who are constant problems who will still keep going at it.
I just do not see the value in recruiting just to have more bodies or handwringing over certain demographics. Build and improve the tools (add me to the long list of people praising Ares for making mushing accessible without the need for a special client or telnet, making slower time scenes possible, ect to reflect the realities of how things have changed tech wise and use wise!), but it is still mushing that has to capture people's interest, which it definitely will for some people. New people are still joining up despite more options for interactive entertainment out there.
And to be clear, a majority of dicks I have encountered in the hobby have outright said that they didnt really care to pay attention or interact with any story but the one that they felt entitled to control, and would engage in manipulative or abusive behavior to try to assert that control. Most were actually excellent writers, both in scenes and in fast talking ooc. It is why when I think of great people to invite to join the hobby, writing skill alone is not at the top of my particular list. I just know 3 very successful dicks out of the many more that I have encountered, two of whom were actually praised for their writing ability in scenes (just...not for their control/truthiness issues outside of it!)