Him? Seriously? Him? What conference? What time? Just go hey, Derp, due to your history, I don't think you'd be a good fit for admin, then do the toggles, then BAM you're done.
And stop with this level-headed courtroom bullshit, it's so painfully condescending. These are adults you're talking to, they're not throwing a tantrum, they're fucking shocked that you'd act this way after knowing you for so long.
It's INSANE how you're putting everything on Mietze. I don't know how you think you're going walk this back. The level of buckling down is astronomical. Banning Farfalla was like taking a capybara out with a warhead.
Anyway, ban me. What a shitshow. Shame on you.
Sincerely, some rando.
I'm only wading into this one because Ganymede has requested that these topics be locked in her announcement. I'll let her figure out how she wants to handle the rest of it when she gets back.
Subsequent topics will continue to be locked, per her instructions.