@silverfox I don't know your timezone, but I just wanted to put out there for other folks who are in less common timezones: personally I never mind - and in fact appreciate - getting the occasional nudged reminder that X plot hasn't had any action when my GMT folks can make it.
I try to remember, honest, it's just that there are a lot of moving pieces, and it's real easy for me to lose track of what's been run when. I usually think of it for the big all-hands stuff, but lose track of it in the smaller day to day things.
A polite request that some mayhem be scheduled earlier if at all possible is a totally thing welcome, for me.
I can't ALWAYS accommodate, but more often than not, it's an oversight that someone on the ST team can fix.