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    Posts made by GangOfDolls

    • RE: Post-Covid 19 world

      Do you think western societies will adopt Universal Basic Income models?

      Some may, but it will shock me if the United States jumps on that bandwagon. Everything about how our society functions from soup to nuts is about punishing the poor and getting the poor to agree that they deserve abuse. The compass alignment required for this to happen means a realignment of how employment, education, and health care functions in this country. It's possible to do this but I'm not sure it's probable given the buy-in required.

      Major cities are getting the brunt of this but the majority of the population outside of these cities isn't going through the same experience. It's still abstract for these groups and most of this is, so far, just one big fucking inconvenience when it comes to businesses being open and life being able to roll on. There's no amount of escalating cases numbers in New York City that you can show a lot of these people to agree that it's their problem. Sure, it's a problem but that's all happening in New York, which is pointedly not Bible Thump, Mississippi to them. There's still a fair amount of denial that they're just weeks behind these places because magical thinking and prayers will exempt them.

      Do you think industries which attract large crowds (sports, entertainment, etc) will stay the same?

      Our capacity for forgetting is pretty impressive. Large crowds will prevail as the appetite for this kind of consumption will probably not abate. The average person at this point just wants to go back to normal and their sense of normal includes Las Vegas, arena tour sellouts, and EDM festivals.

      Will traveling in general be affected? Not just in the political sense but for example how might tourism change after this?

      There will probably more advisories about seasonal outbreaks of the virus and how people are allowed to enter and exit populations where exposure is likely but those restrictions will be per nation. However, unlike 9/11, we don't have a tangible enemy, so the idea of safety when traveling is a lot harder to traverse.

      What about films, do you think there might be a shift away from major releases going exclusively to cinemas first?

      I think that really depends on how well their market tests of in-home access really does. They're entering a particularly busy channel where being a blockbuster movie is not a standout because original programming on a number of paid app services are doing the same thing for content. Going to the movies is about the experience. They're going to have to find a way to market this experience that's different from just firing up Netflix and sitting on your couch.

      The service industry in general took a major hit. What happens down the line, do things get back to normal?

      Probably, yes? Certain kinds of services probably won't survive but new ones will rise in their place.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: COVID-19 Assistance Thread

      @Aria My mom got a similar result (she's married to an ED doctor and he's just on the rollercoster of constant exposure).

      Generally, what means is that you tested negative but there is a very small percentage of incorrect results. These are mostly negative results, who later turn out to be asymptomatic carriers. It's meant to enable doctors to make treatment decisions that assume you are COVID-19 positive even if the test was wrong.

      I would, if you can, attempt to seek out another test? I'm not sure where you live so I don't know the ease of that decision but re-testing might be worthwhile even if it's just for your own peace of mind.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      My stepfather is a physician at a large public hospital. They've moved all ED operations to outside the hospital and are set-up in temporary modular tents.
      He sees his getting as a when and not an if but he's pretty relaxed about it.

      A lot of family friends, etc have been calling him and my mom trying to see if he can flex on getting them a test but the criteria for getting a test where they live is pretty stringent, so most people, for now, are just presumed positive.

      On the upside, a clinical trial for a vaccine candidate has started. No idea if it will work or not, but it's something.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Dating in the 2020's

      OKC is pile of jokes in the city I live in. It's mostly PoF, Tinder, and Bumble around here, even though of these three Bumble seems to be the worst of the three. The theory behind that is because Bumble only allows women to make first contact, it seems to be some kind of gilded invitation to show me your dick because I said: hi.

      I have no problem talking to people in bars, personally but the bars I tend to gravitate towards are the kind where everyone is hunched over their drink with a look that threatens death if you talk to them. I travel a lot for work so I got over eating by myself at restaurants and it's actually kind of nice to be able to zone out and scroll through your phone while you stuff your face. For the record, I prefer going to the movies by myself, too.

      The last few people I've dated - I met through volunteering at the USO Reception Room at the airport or hobbies. Honestly, the USO Reception room has been kind of fun in terms of unearthing the military people who are relatively well adjusted, into cool shit, and not xenophobic MAGA weirdos.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Depression Meals

      Raw cookie dough, fuck the chocolate chips. I'll actually eat around those.

      I don't like sugar-y shit when I'm not depressed. My dad died over the summer so how the fuck I didn't get salmonella poisoning, I have no clue. I certainly ran up on it and punched in the face, like it needed to come at me.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: If you work hard, son, maybe someday you'll RP

      I grew up near a Buddhist temple that had a lovely handcrafted set of iron fences around its property that had both prayer wheels that you would spin as you walked by and swastikas worked into the bars.

      Aka manji.

      They were really beautiful.

      And on the regular some high concern troll, low cultural awareness jackwagon would stealth in middle of the night and cut the swastikas out of the fences. The monks were able to repair the fences a few times but it kept happening and there is no infinite budget for this kind of thing.

      So after the final time, they just stopped having them in the fences.

      Basically, how to spot the bad kind of swastika is it's the one that got tipped over.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Poll: Do I enjoy this hobby more than I don't?

      I love this hobby when you find a PC or a group of PCs who just vibe on your RP style or story preferences and a certain kind of narrative magic takes over. The creative high for that is what I think a lot of people chase.

      And why we put up with so much terrible behavior and poorly socialized players because the high when it happens makes all of that not necessarily worth it but... easy to ignore or tolerate.

      For me, the pitfalls are all about real life. I got a real life jobby job that likes to make me travel in often far, often exhausting ways with no predictable cycle. I love my job to be clear (most of the time) but it doesn't owe to a lot of regularity. So, I have to find games that can work with players who can't be on all the time. And that is not the majority of games, and that's when I don't love this hobby very much - the exile like feelings are magnified by negative experiences with staffers and players and poorly run games.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      @Arkandel said in Game of Thrones:

      @Lotherio said in Game of Thrones:

      Double ... For what its worth, I'm feeling over the abundance of comic genre and zombie genre and supernatural genre stuff on TV, if this heralds in a few more fantasy series in the end. Then I'm grateful they got in the dragon stuff and some of the magic and the general populace has taken to it in droves, could get a few more things out there I'd like to see in TV series format.

      What worries me is this kind of stuff costs a lot of money and sooner or later there will be a bust. Probably sooner.

      If you produce the next Vampire Diaries drama and it doesn't go well it's not a big deal because the fake fangs and colored contacts prosthetics aren't a big deal. Sink million dollars per episode into a Wheel of Time adaptation that doesn't work and suddenly the producers' narrative will shift wildly into 'oh, the public is tired of fantasy, let's go back to cop show procedurals'.

      This is more or less what happened with Chronicles of Shannara on MTV. It wasn't all that good, MTV didn't know what to do with it, and then cancelled it after dumping a bunch of money into a show on a network that's audience wants to watch 'reality' shows featuring reasonably attractive people making terrible romantic decisions.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      @SG

      ***=Bells, Entitlement, and Barbecues***

      click to show

      So, I actually watched the 'Inside the Episode' thing they do on On Demand because I was still wanting to understand what the fuck I've been watching for 6-7 years or so if it's all ending in shark jumps.

      Apparently the bells weren't the thing that set Dany off. Partly because she never actually agreed to the bells being a thing. Tyrion and Jon keep reinforcing that if the bells rang, everyone needed to stand down from murder mode but I don't think you ever actually see her agree to that condition, that I recall. She kinda was saying the opposite which makes me think that all of this was more or less premeditated, to some degree. She just needed a push.

      The thing that set Dany off was The Red Keep, according to Benihoff. It was symbolic of what had been stolen from her and her family and how all of this was supposed to be hers but instead, usurped. And about to be again. If you look at the shot, she's hearing the bells and sort of struggling to comply but keeps looking at the Keep and then gets ticked off by it just being there and goes for it.

      So basically it was just good old fashioned entitlement?

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      ***=Talk To Your Kids About Bran***

      click to show

      Bran has some amount of ability to edits events in the past. His intervention in Hodor's life in the past is what enabled much of what is currently going on in the story, for good or bad. There's a number of things that happened in the past that could be changed as an intervention for what's going to happen.

      Most of this could be directed at Dany but really it could be aimed at anyone as a proxy to dealing with Dany or more specifically, her remaining dragon. Without her dragon, Dany is a crackpot despot with relatively small group of loyal goons. You can bet Sansa has been working in the background all this time about spoiling Dany's claim to the throne not that Varys is dead (RIP). Dany committed mass genocide based on a claim to a throne that she doesn't have but is relying on that to not get around. Anyone who has any sense whatsoever can see that she's willing to do to them what she did to King's Landing based on the faintest wiff of skepticism of her entitlement to the Iron Throne. Take the dragon out of play, and she's just entitled white chick soon to be parted from her head.

      This approach is super heavy handed, though but it's also the kind of heavy handed deus ex machina that this show is into at this point.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      @Ghost

      ***=Spoilers And Salty AF***

      click to show

      I must quibble.

      I hated the arc that they gave Dany, not because they made her insane. I think that was always the in game for her character. It's how they got there is the problem for me. For one, you don't really see her fragment into madness. The books and even the show go out of their way to talk about how for even the crazier of the Targaryen's their spirals into insanity were difficult. Some of them fought what was happening even as they were unraveling. Here? It just feels hacky and cheap.

      A bunch of traumatizing shit happened for yeaaaars and now Dany cray cray for real. But Dany's whole arc has been about about abuse and trauma. Her brother sold her to her husband-rapist. She fell in love with her husband-rapist (!). (Yeah, yeah Moon and Stars and all that ... they sexualized the rape of a woman who was made older in the tv series because censors but she's a teenage girl in all reality. But because Khal D ended up being an okayish guy, he gets the pass where as Sansa's own marital rape trauma wasn't given the pass because Ramsay Bolton wasn't an okayish guy. This show has no idea what to do with this issue and has fucked it up forever but I digress...)

      Anyway, dead babies. Dead husband. Assassination attempts. Fucking over Mereen so bad they couldn't see straight after she was done with it. The other dead dragon which she didn't act all that broken up about when it got turned into a zombie. The summary of all those things wasn't apparently bad enough and Dany was written instead as this somehow promising alternative to the endless Westeros horror show, okayish woman, and white savior. She was terrible at being a ruler but in an approachable, just needs to figure it out way.

      But one more dead dragon and one dead woman who for all their best friendness- Missande's relationship with Dany's war criminal in arms right hand goon, Grey Worm, was way more emotional and deep and compelling. Missande was just like every British period drama where the beautiful and sad great lady uses the woman who is her assistant as an emotional crutch because being rich and beautiful and sad with your peers is so taxing. Truly loving and freeing Missande would have been setting her up far away from all this shit to do great things. Instead, she was just an upgraded servant who died just to a make a white woman feel bad enough to kill a bunch of kids. Yeah, fuck a bunch of that shit.

      Clearly, I have a lot of feelings about this.

      But anyway, yeah - the only real sense we have that this is going off the rails is her casual and cold reasoning that it's fine if she kills every child in King's Landing because something something history will remember this as something. And then she's doing it. Oh and depressive staring at the sea. I guess that's how you know someone is into child murder. They stare depressively after the sea because their nephew-boyfriend gets a little squeamish about continuing to get their fuck on. This whole season has been in short cut wrap ups but this one was super cheap to me.

      I hated the end of Jamie and Cersei, too. I kept waiting for him to knife her in the there-ain't-no-baby-in-there-maker because the whole schtick was that her younger brother was going to kill her. Instead, they were cuddling all sad and dying with the person you love and presenting her as somehow sympathetic and him as weak and worthless and unable to stand up to anything. What did I just watch for 6 years about his whole redemption arc if that's how it was supposed to end?

      The goodbye between The Hound and Arya was perfect in tone and execution though. I'll give it that.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      ***=SPOILER SPOILER***

      click to show

      @Sparks said in Game of Thrones:

      SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER DIS-COURSE DIS-COURSE... (to the tune of the Badger Badger song, as always)

      ***=SPOILER SPOILER***

      click to show

      @Roz said in Game of Thrones:

      Honestly I just feel bad for the Dany stans at this point.

      I feel bad for all those people who named their kids "Khaleesi" several seasons ago.

      I hope they were saving War Crime for a backup.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Wildfire Cove MUSH - Discussion

      Their website has a rather ominous warning to not use it but in a very non-specific way. I'd say all signs point to an abandoned ghostship.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: SerenityMUSH - Discussion

      @Jennkryst

      What kind of slow travel, wage slave, no bar RP game are you looking for?

      This is actually a serious question.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: What's your nerd origin story?

      I was not a nerd as a kid, at all. My parents were very norm core and as a result, my exposure to nerd stuff was pretty minimal. My dad liked scifi movies but that was kind of the extent of it. I was in theatre in high school but it was an extension of being a cheerleader and being on the dance team, because the musicals needed dancers.

      I was aware of D&D and really high level stuff but only as it's portrayed in the media. I was in an improv theatre troop (Comedysports) because I enjoyed high school theatre and wanted something creative and active to do after work (I had already graduated college by this point). A few male members of the company invited me because we'd regularly grab beers after a show or a rehearsal. They invited me to a TT game that they were running because I was quick on my feet thinker and also I was a woman willing to come to their TT, to be honest about it.

      From there, I just kept getting asked to keep playing and from there it transitioned into larp and online games.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
    • RE: Sexuality: IC and OOC

      @Bad-at-Lurking said in Sexuality: IC and OOC:

      I will straight up admit to being pretty skeptical of women playing gay men because (and this is the part where I'm likely to get roasted), most of the examples I have personally seen have been, ah, problematic. I think that's the most diplomatic way to put it.

      I have had this experience. A number of times higher than 1. My worst encounter with it was on Haunted Memories but most of the time since, it's been more often than not its been represented by straight or bi women primarily attracted to men who have a kink for gay male porn. Or that's how it reads to me - problematic fetishization of gay sex because it turns their player's crank.

      That said, I'm quite certain that I've met some women playing gay men and had no idea because their efforts didn't come across the least bit squicky. Confirmation bias in action.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      GangOfDolls
      GangOfDolls
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