I'm a female-bodied, genderqueer bisexual person, and I mostly play bisexual guys. I make female characters and for whatever reason, they just don't get the same amount of RP and ultimately they just don't click. I have a hard time playing exclusively gay or straight because monosexuality is alien to me. It's not wrong, it's just that that's not how my brain works.
I would like to try playing more women and to maybe play around with gender identity IC. Regardless, when it comes to romantic/sexytimes RP, I prefer to stick with players I know and trust. I want people to understand that, while my PC might be available, I am very much not interested in taking that attraction OOC.