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@Insomnia said:

Roddy Pipper

nooooo not Rowdy Roddy Piper!
goes to watch Hulk Hogan's Rockin' Wrestlin' on Youtube

did I say Archer is awesome?

Because Archer IS AWESOME.

@Luna and he's not just making nice for the sake of the kids, even?

@Luna hmmm, that is odd, I'm guessing you split from him because he was either being a creeper or controlling/abusive in some manner (and he ran out of things to control)?

@Luna said:

@Shebakoby He left me because I'm such a crazy bitch he couldn't stand me. I said awful things to him like 'you need to get a job'. Never ever would I have him back. He had to borrow money from his parents and friends to pay child support.

Oh, I get it. (You were being the reasonable responsible adult and he thought you were "crazy" for insisting that he get - le gasp - A JOB! OHNOES!)

Just for the lulz, does he actually have a job now? XD

@Luna said:

@Shebakoby Hahaha, part time security guard. But he might go back to school. For business. So he can...start a business. Wtf lol

LOL maybe he thinks that since the lack of jerb is what made you kick him to the curb, maybe having jerb will cause you to consider taking him back. (Also, sounds like he's epic fail trying to get with others, so he's retreading old ground for another try).

@Luna said:

@Ganymede Maybe. I know he's in treatment for PTSD and is looking to get VA disability so that makes sense. I try to be civil and polite but he makes me excruciatingly uncomfortable. There was a lot of gaslighting and other awful things. I have no interest in this whatsoever. I've lost a lot of weight and his compliments and wanting to hug me just skeeve me out. Wanting to go to dinner alone isn't something I want to do and I don't think I could. I think I would have the mother of all anxiety attacks.

oh shit, gaslighting. BAD. Though, with the PTSD happening, one has to wonder if his own brain is gaslighting him. Either way, that's something you do not need.

Does he get visitation with child?

do it tomorrow.

I just put a stuffed turkey into the oven and am probably going to be slaving over a hot stove later lol. But for now I'm relaxing. Dammit i want my turkey NOW! XD