@Caractus I took well to the character concept as it was presented to me -- a rambunctious, lecherous old guy from Djelibeybi. I'm not going to pretend I didn't backpedal with the speed of a thousand cheetahs the more I realised what you were doing.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to play a sex game. But I think you may have to look at what games you are apping to. If their theme is not sexual in nature, then that character is going to come across as -- very off theme at best. Discworld is somewhat Eurocentric,not going to disagree with you there -- but sex themed it is not. Trying to turn this into a matter of 'they hated black people' is a strawman. The issue was not the colour of the character's skin. The issue was the aggressive sexuality that made several other players highly uncomfortable.