Oct 19, 2019, 5:42 PM

@Auspice said in The Basketball Thread:

@Warma-Sheen said in The Basketball Thread:

But that just seems... weak... I guess?

That's easy to say. And cruel, too.

It is easy. That's kind of the point. For all of us. Me, you and Morey. We can sit back comfortably from the comfort and safety of being behind our screens and give our opinions without very much risk - that we know of.

But I don't think its cruel. At all. Just calling it like I see it. If you feel strongly enough, stand behind it. If it costs you too much and you tuck your tail, then maybe you did what is best for you and yours. Not saying it is wrong. But own that it was a weak move.

And if we're going personal, I've been on both sides. I think most of us have in way or another. I've stood up for people and had other people stand up with me. And I've stood up for people and gotten my ass kicked, literally, too. And I've been the one that has needed people to stand up for me and no one did, until the truth finally came out, then I got to hear how people "always were on my side".

To sit there and sneer at a man who did what was right and found himself without anyone by his side.

But there's the question about what is 'doing the right thing'. Is a retweet 'doing the right thing'? Personally, I don't think a single retweet quickly retracted is doing much of anything. First a retweet is not even your own thought. And the timing of it is highly suspect. Was he not with the people of Hong Kong the first 5 months? It seems to me he just clicked a button offhand because it was trendy and here in the US we love democracy so why not... and didn't understand the holy hell that was about to rain down on him. And I don't consider that doing the right thing.

People who 'do the right thing' don't always start off intending to. Sometimes it is just something said or done offhand. But when the pressure comes they weather it, even when it takes everything from them whether anyone stands with them or not, because they knew that what they said was right and they were willing to hold to it. Had Morey kept his course, I'd hail him as a hero who did the right thing, but he didn't. He buckled. Again, that doesn't make him a bad person. He's just a guy who has his own concerns and life as well as a basketball team to manage. But he isn't someone who 'did the right thing' in my opinion.

How would you feel if, when you needed someone to stand up for you, and they did, but then when they got withering looks, slunk back down and said, "Nevermind, I was wrong to speak up". Is that 'the right thing'? Maybe it is just a difference in opinion, but I actually think that's ultimately worse.

But before labeling Morey this lonely soul, remember that the man caused a shitstorm and kept his job. You don't keep your job in that situation against the political and economic pressure of the entire nation of China without having more than a few powerful, decision-swaying people on your side. Firing him would have gone a long way to repairing the damage for both the Rockets and the NBA. And they did not. They had his back in a huge way. (Not to mention all the likes and tweets in support of him, which - ironically - don't seem to count as being on his side.)