I have planned for a couple of years to take my eldest son on an NBA road trip that he will remember for the rest of his life and I plan to do it this year. I have saved ten dollars a check for two years and I think I have enough to do it on the cheap.
I am not poor but part of this trip is not to spend a lot. It's about quality time and I set this goal for myself worse comes to worse I could always put a few thousand dollars more on credit cards and do it more expensively but I just worked hard to get out of debt finally in December (40k in two years). When my father was alive we were poor as dirt and my best memories are when we penny pitched and got nosebleed tickets. My sons don't care how we do it. I think living out of a cooler mostly, road tripping, cheap hotels and fellowship is the way to go.
My son is an amazing child. He is on the high functioning side of the autism spectrum (Asperger Syndrome) and struggles socially while excelling intellectually.
I was much the same as a child. One of the outlets I had available was basketball. My father and I were rabid Phoenix Suns fans and as child we bonded over the team. When I was eleven he had his first heart attack which led to a quadruple bypass. We were watching a game one night and he started sweating and throwing up in a small trashcan. The game went into overtime and I could tell something was wrong. We used to listen to the radio broadcast with a delay and watch the games through the small television in the living room. After the game (we won) he looked to me and told me he had a heart attack and that I needed to drive him to the hospital.
The doctor told him that he could not watch basketball anymore and he coded while on the stress test the next morning. He wash rushed through to get a bypass. My father told the doctor to go to hell with his basketball request. I spent the next number of games smuggling in a black and white little rabbit ears television unit and we watched the games at his bedside. He lived twenty-five more years and our love of the Suns are my fondest memories of my father and I. It was everything to us.
From an early age despite living in Texas my eldest son and I watched basketball. We are die-hard Suns fans but we love the NBA in general. One of my sons aspirations was to get good enough in basketball to play for his high school team. We played daily and despite making progress that likely is not going to happen. He helps the 8th grade team as an assistant coach now and while he is okay for a kid his age some of his challenges and awkwardness won't allow him the chance in high school. I would be understating it to say that for my son, basketball, is important and one of his only successful social outlets. He is a brilliant child -- straight A's his whole life and his academic future is amazing. I am so proud of his manners and he is the most amazing son a father could wish for.
I will be picking him up for Spring Break in Louisville on the 3/31 and bringing his little brother (6) and I will pretend like we are making the drive back to Texas. We won't be, I am packing a cooler, and we're going to start our NBA road trip together. Each stop I will tell him I love him and it is time to go home but then it will be on to the next city until it is actually time for Spring Break to be over and I will put him on a plane in Dallas to fly back.
My Request:
I do not know these cities. And while we follow the teams I would like to do something iconic and affordable with the little time I have in each.
If there is something unique about the team to do or a particular food or iconic place I should see that is affordable please let me know. I will be buying the tickets over the next couple weeks (nose bleeds) and budgeting out the trip as hotels, gas, and food will add up. Most of the trip will be packed lunches and I could probably afford one meal in each stop for my sons if I stick to the budget.
Here is our tentative schedule:
*3/31 Pick up in Louisville, drive to Chicago
*4/1 Spend day in Chicago, Chicago v. Wizards
*4/2 Travel to Cleveland (Spend Day there)
*4/3 Cleveland v. Toronto (In Cleveland)
*4/4 Travel to Detroit, Detroit v. 76ers
*4/5 Travel to Indianapolis (Indy v.Warriors)
*4/6 Travel to Memphis (Memphis v. Kings)
*4/7 Travel to Dallas (Eldest son flies home, my youngest and I travel two hours home)
Our time is limited so really looking for must do things. Tips to get affordable tickets as for some of these games I'm going to struggle to afford (like v. Golden State, etc).