@Pyrephox said:
Think about Rip Van Winkle, or Thomas the Rhymer. Rip had a /grand old time/ playing bowling with the ghosts, singing and drinking and living it up for a single night...that turns out to be a hundred years of his time. His horror, his trouble, comes not from the fact that his time on the other side was terrible, but that now almost everyone he knows are dead, and he's a man out of time. Thomas the Rhymer willingly goes away with the Queen of Elfland, and parts (mostly) happily with her, with the gift of prophesy - his difficulties come in dealing with the gifts of Faerie, which are always double-edged. The main character of Kappa quite enjoys his time among the kappa, and it is the real world which is a terrible, disappointing thing to him (and he is also already a psychiatric patient, since the whole thing is a parable more than anything). Tam Lin apparently quite likes being a captive of the Elf Queen, until he a) is going to be sacrificed as a tithe, and b) falls in love.
The books, in general, tend to play up the idea that there is beauty and wonder in what the Lost experienced, as well as terror and pain - and that doesn't mean that /everyone/ has to have spent a durance which was filled to the gills with sexual slavery, torture, and blood. Things can be complicated. Things SHOULD be complicated. There are a lot of reasons that the Lost don't fit in with the human world, and some of those reasons can be that there's a part of them that misses Faerie and always will...even if they wouldn't choose to go back.
This is all well and good, but again not what I remember reading in the Changeling books. So I restate my question (I hadn't seen this when I posted before): Is this actually supported by C:tL's books? My memory is of the Durance and the Keepers responsible for it being pretty much just terrible alien monsters, no matter how beautiful, and that the decision to flee from that being important, and the flight back through the hedge being what rips your soul up so the magic can seep in and finalize making you a Changeling, being universally pretty horrible.
So is what's described above actually what's described in the C:tL books, or just something players who want to play it that way have decided should have been described? That's not sarcasm, I really don't know the answer and would like to.