@arkandel said in Random links:
https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/01/there-are-two-kinds-of-people-sorry-people-and-thank-you-people.html
I feel like, however, you can switch those things around sometimes.
What if the person thanks everyone first?
"I'm so sorry but my friend is joining us last minute"
becomes
"Thank you for letting me bring my friend." and yet all before anyone had even heard of this addition to the party.
"Thanks for taking this seat, Haley." as the initiation to that interaction would be controlling, expecting. Demanding.
I think it's less that it was used in that scenario as referenced and more that the person over-used it.
This sounds more like a matter of: show people you appreciate what they've done rather than make the situation about you.
Not: say thank you instead of sorry. Because the simple syntax switch can make you sound like a maniac.