@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Also because it's just easier. It's easier for me to tell people I'm gay and have them get all surprised when I hook up with a woman than to try and explain bisexuality is a real thing.
This is how I describe my sexuality:
“It is better to live doing the things that you like. It is foolish to live within this dream of a world seeing unpleasantness and doing only things that you do not like.” -- Yamamoto Tsunetomo.
@Auspice said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
I'm an orb-sexual.
@Kestrel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Am I the only one whose sexual orientation changes depending on who I'm dealing with?
I mean. What I say my orientation is sure fuckin' differs, and my interest in individuals isn't defined by a label...
@Ganymede said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Also because it's just easier. It's easier for me to tell people I'm gay and have them get all surprised when I hook up with a woman than to try and explain bisexuality is a real thing.
This is how I describe my sexuality:
Clearly you just haven't met the right man.
runs away, runs away very fast
Racism isn't Tinkerbell. It doesn't need you to believe in it for it to exist.
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Ganymede said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Also because it's just easier. It's easier for me to tell people I'm gay and have them get all surprised when I hook up with a woman than to try and explain bisexuality is a real thing.
This is how I describe my sexuality:
Clearly you just haven't met the right man.
runs away, runs away very fast
She did, but I wasn't interested in listening to her recite Black's from memory over the canapes.
He/Him
@Auspice said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
You would not believe how many times I've had a char fall for someone and THEN go check out their PB and I'm like 'oh wow that person is wildly unattractive (to me)'
Somewhat related, people have been trying to hit on me for years by complimenting my PB's attractiveness, and not for my life can I think of a response to that. Uh... thanks for thinking someone who isn't me is pretty enough to be worth your attraction, I guess?
@Kestrel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Am I the only one whose sexual orientation changes depending on who I'm dealing with?
I'm gay when I'm lonely and ace-spectrum when my self-respect is functioning correctly.
@GreenFlashlight said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
I'm gay when I'm lonely
Oh. Okay. If we're including loneliness...
It's like going grocery shopping while starving, okay, don't judge me.
@GreenFlashlight said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Auspice said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
You would not believe how many times I've had a char fall for someone and THEN go check out their PB and I'm like 'oh wow that person is wildly unattractive (to me)'
Somewhat related, people have been trying to hit on me for years by complimenting my PB's attractiveness, and not for my life can I think of a response to that. Uh... thanks for thinking someone who isn't me is pretty enough to be worth your attraction, I guess?
'Thanks for telling me up front you aren't worth my time!'
My sexuality is just posting gifs of one of my Arx PBs.
I'm generally loath to get into anything beyond that out of the irrational fear that someone will see me goofing around on a forum and page me on-game like "hey, so..."
@Tinuviel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
She did, but I wasn't interested in listening to her recite Black's from memory over the canapes.
“It is better to live doing the things that you like. It is foolish to live within this dream of a world seeing unpleasantness and doing only things that you do not like.” -- Yamamoto Tsunetomo.
@Tinuviel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Playing a character on a MU is not writing a character in a story. At least not as far as I'm concerned. It is embodying a character through word and action in a real-time interaction with other people.
I don't really see that as being different? MU* storytelling will be a bit... fast and loose, obviously, compared to a written work that undergoes revision and editing, but ultimately the same sort of thing.
A good story invites us to identify with the characters "on-screen" to at least some degree, and the creator (by necessity) is the one who embodies them in their creation.
...but this is a bit off-topic, I guess
@insomniac7809 said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
I don't really see that as being different?
The main difference, at least in my interpretation, When writing, I'm not the character. All the characters are there, they interact, etc... but I'm not doing the action.
It's the difference between writing a play and acting it out.
@Ganymede said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
This is how I describe my sexuality:
Should I ask which one of those two is you?
@Ganymede said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Tinuviel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
She did, but I wasn't interested in listening to her recite Black's from memory over the canapes.
Now I have to go watch that.
@GreenFlashlight said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Ganymede said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
This is how I describe my sexuality:
Should I ask which one of those two is you?
The grumpy one. Catbot.
Racism isn't Tinkerbell. It doesn't need you to believe in it for it to exist.
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@GreenFlashlight said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Ganymede said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
This is how I describe my sexuality:
Should I ask which one of those two is you?
The grumpy one. Catbot.
@Auspice said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Tinuviel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Kestrel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@GreenFlashlight said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@onigiri said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
I've largely found MUSHes to be far more progressive when it comes to gender/sexuality politics than when it comes to race.
If you say so. I've found that people's progressive attitudes toward my gender and sexuality directly correlate to how much they can fap to them, which I guess is better than a lot of reactions but is still pretty creepy.
This is the perk of being pansexual. People mistake me for woke because I'll fap to anything.
This is the perk of being bisexual. People don't know we fuckin' exist.
ETA: Why do I call myself gay then, you ask? Because fuck you, that's why.
When we do exist it's 'cause we're stealin' everyone's wives and husbands cause if you like more than one gender obviously you can't be with one person at a time.
Bi here, married to an opposite gender person. That makes me no jot less bi. Just slightly more invisible! 
The only bi married people are swingers. It is known. sagenod
Racism isn't Tinkerbell. It doesn't need you to believe in it for it to exist.
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
The only bi married people are swingers. It is known. sagenod
Or they're cheating on their partner, because bi people are greedy and can't help it.
He/Him
@Tinuviel said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
The only bi married people are swingers. It is known. sagenod
Or they're cheating on their partner, because bi people are greedy and can't help it.
I just want EVERYONE. All the time. Actual compatibility, attraction, etc. doesn't matter. Being bi just means I wanna sleep with everything that moves. SORRY.
Saying the quiet parts out loud since 1996.
@Derp said in Diversity Representation in MU*ing:
Also because it's just easier. It's easier for me to tell people I'm gay and have them get all surprised when I hook up with a woman than to try and explain bisexuality is a real thing.
This is how I describe my sexuality:
