I really cannot believe that this person keeps getting passes. If we want to concern ourselves with actions that are unhealthy for the community and/or individuals who are no longer part of it who feel compelled to return every so often to remind us all how we are -insert opinions here- for still taking part in said hobby.. like are warnings per thread? If a week passes do warnings reset? Are we talking warnings per admin, or does two warnings from one admin then more from another admin not count as consecutive? Is it okay because of who it is? Is it okay because they post the most? What even are the ethics here? Especially in mildly constructive.
Im not a therapist but I will say what mine tells me when -someone elses voice- tries to alienate or shame me for being different, experiencing or processing in my own way. Whomever needs to hear it after this absolute shitpost: You're not gross. You're not creepy. Fantasy is absolutely natural whether s-ual or not. Likenesses being used happens in all genres and thats okay (barring profit). Its okay to have human experiences and feelings. Give yourself some grace.
Dont let people who keep coming back to express how much better they are because they "don't like/participate/respect the same things you do" anymore get under the skin. And question why people who you believe are usually sensible people give it a pass.