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    My Adventures in Explaining the Stress of Staffing (To a non-Geek)

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    • Saulot
      Saulot @tragedyjones last edited by

      @tragedyjones said:

      If City of Heroes was returned to the world I would never talk to you ducks again.

      It's on Steam.

      Y'all finished or y'all done? I ain't go no more talkin'.

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      • Rook
        Rook @Saulot last edited by Rook

        @Huzuruth said:

        @tragedyjones said:

        If City of Heroes was returned to the world I would never talk to you ducks again.

        It's on Steam.

        IE: GTFO, STFU. o/

        EDIT: To be clear, that was meant to be a joke. I laughed when Huzuruth posted exact directions on how Tragedy could exit, stage left. šŸ˜„

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        • Eerie
          Eerie @Coin last edited by

          @Coin said:

          I am, as far as I know, the only MUer in my country. Not my city, my country. So while I cherish the friendships and connections I make with people who RP online with me, I'll never really get to experience connecting with the people who share my hobby in a face-to-face way that's anything more than temporary and transitory.

          It’s funny how I feel kind of just the opposite about MU* friendships. I think if anything this is a medium that can make for particularly meaningful interactions. Like others have said, it requires a lot of time, so you’re likely to spend a good chunk of it with the same people in your group. And beyond time, I think there’s something about the nature of the internet that tends to make people say things that they probably wouldn’t if they were in the same room with people, as anyone who has been in an OOC room anywhere ever and cringed going ā€˜how is this person saying all this to utter strangers’ can attest to. And beyond all that, I think working on something creative with other people breeds intimacy. This may not be high art, but it is highly creative and invariably you end up putting a lot of yourself into your characters and plots. So constant exposure + open communication + creative engagement I think can really make for some fairly significant friendships. I have lots of RL friends in my immediate area and I’m pretty social, but I see my online friends more and I would even wager that ā€˜deep and meaningful’ conversation is more common with my online friends than my RL friends. I dunno! I’ve known @Thenomain and @Wretched for years and years at this point and I love them dearly and that was true even for the big chunks of that I wasn’t MU*ing, even though we’ve never met in person.

          @Arkandel said:

          And with some effort you can create entire worlds, taking anything from the pages of a book, the small/big screen or just your imagination and giving it a chance to become an immersive interactive environment shared with other people. That's pretty special.

          Yes this. I think MUing is unique in a lot of ways. I am surrounded IRL by people that work in video games and have pretty much unlimited access to whatever I would want in that arena and nothing else is at all like MUing. I can enjoy a video game sometimes, but its really not the least little bit comparable to MU*ing for me.

          That being said, I don’t talk about MUing to my RL friends because it’s very hard to explain. Very very. I suspect it’s really not for everyone and that you have to do it to understand it.

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          • Thenomain
            Thenomain @Saulot last edited by

            @Huzuruth said:

            @tragedyjones said:

            If City of Heroes was returned to the world I would never talk to you ducks again.

            It's on Steam.

            I actually checked, you ass.

            ā€œIf you wish to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe.ā€
            ― Carl Sagan, Cosmos

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            • Saulot
              Saulot last edited by

              Yeah. My dumbass got mixed up. It was Champions Online.

              Y'all finished or y'all done? I ain't go no more talkin'.

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              • Coin
                Coin @Eerie last edited by

                @Eerie said:

                @Coin said:

                I am, as far as I know, the only MUer in my country. Not my city, my country. So while I cherish the friendships and connections I make with people who RP online with me, I'll never really get to experience connecting with the people who share my hobby in a face-to-face way that's anything more than temporary and transitory.

                It’s funny how I feel kind of just the opposite about MU* friendships. I think if anything this is a medium that can make for particularly meaningful interactions. Like others have said, it requires a lot of time, so you’re likely to spend a good chunk of it with the same people in your group. And beyond time, I think there’s something about the nature of the internet that tends to make people say things that they probably wouldn’t if they were in the same room with people, as anyone who has been in an OOC room anywhere ever and cringed going ā€˜how is this person saying all this to utter strangers’ can attest to. And beyond all that, I think working on something creative with other people breeds intimacy. This may not be high art, but it is highly creative and invariably you end up putting a lot of yourself into your characters and plots. So constant exposure + open communication + creative engagement I think can really make for some fairly significant friendships. I have lots of RL friends in my immediate area and I’m pretty social, but I see my online friends more and I would even wager that ā€˜deep and meaningful’ conversation is more common with my online friends than my RL friends. I dunno! I’ve known @Thenomain and @Wretched for years and years at this point and I love them dearly and that was true even for the big chunks of that I wasn’t MU*ing, even though we’ve never met in person.

                But none of that is mutually exclusive to what I said. I was just focusing on what is missing from those relationships, while you're focusing on the good aspects. I was saying "for every pro, there is a con" and you're saying "for every con, there is a pro".

                As in multiplication, the order of the factors does not alter the product.

                "Excuse the hell out of you. He's a bag of dicks. I'm a carefully curated box of cocks." -- to @GirlCalledBlu upon being misrepresented.

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                • Eerie
                  Eerie @Coin last edited by Eerie

                  @Coin

                  Okay fair, you're just Eeyore and I'm Tigger. At least we can both agree that you are, without question, a complete and utter jerkface.

                  šŸ’–

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                  • Cirno
                    Cirno Banned @Arkandel last edited by

                    @Arkandel said:

                    follow causes of the week from their couch ("fuck big business, man!")

                    Yeah, how dare those people! Having political opinions and everything! We should drag them off their couches and put them in gas chambers, or something.

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                    • Chime
                      Chime @Saulot last edited by

                      @Huzuruth said:

                      It's on Steam.

                      Wait what? I thought all the servers and everything got shut down?

                      Yeah. Went on steam in 2009 or something, then in shut down in 2012.

                      There's an interesting kickstarter that ended but seems to be still active in producing some sort of spiritual successor.

                      I do rather miss my little mastermind.

                      "Why aren't you fighting?" the party leader screamed, dodging another small missile.
                      "Fighting?" The Red Rasper sniffed. "Do be serious. I have people for that." Her wrists flicked vaguely toward the onrushing robotic horde. Suddenly, ninjas-- ninjas everywhere.

                      It is by will alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the juice of Coffea arabica that thoughts acquire speed, the table acquires stains, the stains become a warning. It is by will alone I set my mind in motion.

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                      • Chime
                        Chime @Thenomain last edited by

                        @Thenomain said:

                        I actually checked, you ass.

                        I wonder how many of us did, without even reading the rest of the thread.

                        Really says something.

                        Also, yay ass.

                        It is by will alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the juice of Coffea arabica that thoughts acquire speed, the table acquires stains, the stains become a warning. It is by will alone I set my mind in motion.

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                        • DamnitJim
                          DamnitJim @Three-Eyed Crow last edited by

                          @Three-Eyed-Crow said:

                          I'm 90% sure that continuing to MUSH actively is the reason I never got into subscription-based multi-player games like WoW.

                          I could never get emotionally involved in WoW. There really isn't any coherent story arc and the hack-and-slash was a unsatisfying mixture of dry intellectual challenge and pre-training combat combos.

                          Now, single player RPGs (e.g. Skyrim) ... those do sometimes rival MUing. It may lack the social element, but at least there's a semi-coherent story.

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                          • Three-Eyed Crow
                            Three-Eyed Crow Banned last edited by

                            I finally broke down and bought DA:Inquisition, and it is definitely taking a chunk out of my timewaster hours. 😃

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                            • Ganymede
                              Ganymede Admin last edited by

                              I just bought FF VI on sale for my iPad. And I'm getting FFT: TWotL for it too. Hurray!

                              ā€œIt is better to live doing the things that you like. It is foolish to live within this dream of a world seeing unpleasantness and doing only things that you do not like.ā€ -- Yamamoto Tsunetomo.

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