RL Things: Awkward/Cringe Edition
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Friday, a bunch of people went out for drinks for my boss' birthday. I met a lot of new people, but was also drunk by the end of it (never turn down a free drink... or 5 free drinks).
I passed a girl in the hall today that I vaguely remember meeting.
She remembered my name.
I couldn't even begin to guess at hers. :Xhow do people remember names?!
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@Auspice I just ask. "Oh I'm sorry, I forget your name, drawing a blank right now!"
Just don't let it fester for weeks because then it becomes awkward.
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@Arkandel said in RL Things: Awkward/Cringe Edition:
@Auspice I just ask. "Oh I'm sorry, I forget your name, drawing a blank right now!"
Just don't let it fester for weeks because then it becomes awkward.
I feel so bad when I can't remember someone's name and they remember mine.
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You just ask someone. Most people understand this problem, as most people are good with faces and absolute crap at names. They usually have pity, and someone will know.
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"Hey, sorry, it's not personal, but I'm terrible with names."
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@Derp said in RL Things: Awkward/Cringe Edition:
You just ask someone. Most people understand this problem, as most people are good with faces and absolute crap at names. They usually have pity, and someone will know.
<quiet voice>I'm bad with both.</quiet voice>
that's part of the problem rn. She caught me by surprise in the hall and I had somewhere to be so I couldn't stop or anything ...... but now I don't know if I'd recognize her if I saw her again.
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Create a funny nickname for her.
Insist on its use.
Eventually, someone will use her real name around you.
Or not.
Whatever.
You don't need it anymore. You have baptized your new friend.
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I just strait up tell people when we are introduced that I am shit with names and will forget it.
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When in doubt, shoot the five hundred pound gorilla in the room and be open about it.
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