Aug 6, 2017, 12:52 PM

If both parties are't enjoying themselves, the roleplay has failed somewhere along the line.

As Coin said above, there is no magical seperate mind that decides what the character does. "IC is IC" being treated as there being no OOC effects based on your beheavior is a silly notion too often used to put your enjoyment before, and often at the cost of others in a cooperative exercise.

Of course this doesn't mean you should always be a doormat, but flexibility is required.

Caveat: I do not always pratice what I preach, but I try.