@Sunny
I'm neither defensive nor freaking out? Not sure where you're getting that one from, but alright?
As to the larger questions, though: am I somehow required to gain your permission before posting commentary on... basically anything? I mean, you're certainly not a moderator, and even our moderators take a fairly conservative approach toward such things.
If you want to call me pointing out a qualifier "rude", then sure? I mean, I've been called worse things, I suppose. I certainly didn't "spit on" you, and the fact that you're taking a single passing comment weirdly as some sort of attack makes me believe that you are the one being defensive here. But I also have no real need to convince you otherwise, and would probably largely fail in trying, since you've taken a colossal leap toward conclusions already.
So, you know. You do you, too, I guess? I'll just be over here "freaking out" that someone had the audacity to call me out on "spitting on" a person that I have absolutely no investment in whatsoever by pointing out the "yet" at the end of a sentence.