@HelloRaptor said:
@Sunny
WoD is one thing, but this is actually dramatically different in several other genres. It's not an entirely reasonable issue across the board -- it might be entirely reasonable within the context of the games you enjoy/play on/play in, but it's nowhere near as universal as you're presenting it.
WoD, D&D, Pathfinder, Shadowrun, basically any game where potentially lethal conflict is pretty common.
D&D is included in here, as well as Pathfinder. Pern.. Many many original fantasy mushes. This is a cultural difference, it is not universal. And guess what? These games don't have the problems you're referring to, because the culture is vastly different.
My condolences. Like I said, there's going to be people for whom it's not an issue. If you're one of them, more power to you.
Uh, why? Condolences? I've no need for those. You're accusing Coin of ignoring shit while doing the exact same thing yourself. You are referring to a personal preference, here. A very specific genre of mushes have this culture, but it is not universal, and I'm not some weird exception in those other genres. That's just how they are. It's not 'a few people' don't have issues with it, it's a whole host of non-WoD players. You're wrong, man. This is your opinion, not fact, and again, it absolutely isn't universal. There's also no problem with that, just because you don't like it.
TR was used as an example because it's the single largest game that @Coin and I both played on the most recently. Since it's been a thing at basically every MU* and tabletop game I've ever played in, I could make the list more expansive, but I didn't think it was really necessary.
So, here's the deal, man. I am not saying that this isn't the case, that these aren't your experiences, that this isn't your opinion. I agree with you; in the WoD genre, this is how it is. What I am saying is that there are completely different mushing cultures out there that you apparently haven't been exposed to at all, and saying that this perspective is universal is flat out wrong. It happens on other games, and it works on other games. Quite well, with everyone having plenty of fun.
Since you're just ignoring shit and repeating yourself, I'll bow out.
Pot. Kettle. Black.