Mar 17, 2016, 4:01 PM

I assume that means there must be one Head of Household per listed holding in the county, which would prevent one Household absorbing the lands of another?

As a purely creative idea, you might consider allowing non-religious "knightly bonuses" for achieving a set of Virtues/Vices that fit a strong archetype. Examples might be the dangerously ambitious Noble, the Steward, or the Respected Entertainer. Instead of combat based bonuses, they could earn something to add to their skills, or perhaps a way to earn honor or avoid losing Honor for some actions.