@lisse24
I think there's a vast difference in moderating the ideas allowed in speech and moderating the type of speech that is allowed. I would never, ever be for the former. No matter how idiotic the idea, I think everyone benefits from having it aired. I think society is increasingly suffering from it's refusal to do the latter.
Like I said, social admonishment will result in standards of compliance. Personal attacks, spreading of false information, inflammatory languages are all well listed in Schopenhauer's The Art of Controversy as being cheap and easy tactics to 'win' an argument. If you're discussing an idea, it would be best if you weren't trying to win the discussion, in my view.
How this applies to MSB, I don't know, but I do know that people need to free themselves of the illusion that unmoderated speech equals free speech.
I seldom see moderation of speech done in a way that's even-handed. You'll often lean one side or another, heavily so, and that will result in ideas being suppressed because they're undesirable to the majority. I haven't seen people here get banned for espousing controversial ideas or viewpoints to what's relevant to the community itself, as pertains to MUSHing or MUXing or what have you, so that's good.
That said, this is a privately owned server with a specific set of rules that govern the expected conduct of the participants. If that's not moderated speech, even if passively moderated (and enforced, given the repeated bans of a known troll), then what is it?
Additionally, I'm not for blacklisting certain words. As another said, words are words. They in and of themselves are (mainly) neutral. However, I do think it's reasonable to moderate the way in which words are used and when someone asks me to not use a certain word as a negative descriptor, it seems only basic decency to comply.
This is, as someone else pointed out in another thread, I think it was @Salty-Secrets, in fact, unevenly applied. 'Dick', 'dickhead', and a lot of other 'male-referring' words can be used and people won't blink once.
You throw a 'cunt' out there, it's armageddon again. And before someone tries to apply critical theory to my argument: please don't. You can't have it both ways. Either do it in the absolute or don't do it at all.