One of the most, paranoid things that I worried about openning my own place is the sheer amount of drama that floats around the community. I think since our community tends to be great story tellers we are also capable of being dramatic... it's the double edged sword. People take things wrong, or too serious, or various other things. Instead of just playing a game. Maybe because it is all text based we miss on those subtilty that are expressed in tone of voice.
The other thing is I think the community has a lot of gatekeepers. About all sorts of different things. I don't know why this is the case, but in my time trying to develop or when I've been staff I can't count how many times I have heard my team is wrong in the directions we're trying to develop. It's not that a personal suggest an improvement or gives constructive criticism. People get very very passionate about having to do things the way they want. I've been yelled at literally because I choose to use Evennia instead of a traditional MU platform.
I refuse to be hubris enough to not admit that I have been guilty of both these points at some time in my life. I've caused drama at a few points throughout my time playing different games. Completely unintentional, and finding out later on it was because of an undiagnosed health condition, but it has happened. And even in writing this I can see how I can be acting like a Gatekeeper.
Lastly I think people get stuck in what they want. There is no room to growth. My example above of using Evennia is a prime example.
Just my two cents.