This whole last 6 months can go right to hell. While there has been some good in it, mostly it has just been a pile of crap.
- My mom passed on unexpectedly.
- My wife gets diagnosed with clinical depression (so do I, but I seem to be able to at least function for the most part) which puts her on medical leave for a few weeks.
- After the medical leave ends, Wife develops chronic daily migraines, possibly due to the medication for her depression.
- Due to migraines, wife put on medical leave for (upcoming on) four months because she can't drive of function during the now daily migraines, while people try to figure out what is going on with her, with little to no effect. CT scan negative for anything, trying to get MRI has been a total mess even though it has been approved.
- Due to medical leave, money gets tight because wife is getting no pay and we end up going deeper into debt, but that's ok because we have some meager savings put away, a expected tax refund, and supplemental insurance for her medical leave which should help ease the pain a bit.
- 45's tax 'cuts' cost us thousands instead of the normal refund money we have gotten for years, totally wiping out what measly savings we had.
- Supplemental medical insurance which is supposed to cover things like being out for medical leave DENIES the claim for medical leave, thus leaving us without an expected relief from financial woes...which sends my wife back into the deep end of the depression from which she was starting to emerge from.
I mean, I am thankful we both have families that will help us, so we are not as fucked as we could be, but I hate that I have to ask for help.
takes a deep breath
Sorry, I just needed to get that out.