@tangent I'm guessing we're just not seeing things the same way (Based on this idea that I am so concerned about OC's not being powerful, which is to me like projecting an idea onto what I am saying rather than my point that FC's can (and often do) trivialize the presence of OC's).
When I played on JLU it was FC's controlling practically every scene.
When I played on UU it was FC's being the OC's weren't invited or included into scenes.
Same with every other game I tried.
To be honest I stopped even trying to play on the 'consent' style games /because/ there was little recourse for the OC's to be involved. They just got overlooked, ignored, or overshadowed.
Maybe things have changed. I don't know. I don't do consent games anymore.