@emmahsue said in Hello MSBites! Grade your administrators.:
Their interest in that stance plays a major factor, and if Ark at the top, and his team in general, are gonna burnout on trying to achieve it, then it's probably not worth the headache of the switch.
It's not the headache that I mind, it's the nitpicking. This whole thing about administrating microaggressions seems so petty that I can't get myself interested enough to even read some threads - I'm just too lazy for that (stop gasping, @Coin). If something serious like harassment happens I definitely intend to get involved, but the he-said she-said bullshit... about some random clash of personalities, not so much.
On a certain level it also bugs me that this is needed at all. You guys shouldn't need an adult in the room - there are some really intelligent people here. Many of you run games of your own, you run businesses, you're taking care of your shit. Isn't it demeaning to require a staff of three folks to make sure we're not treating each other like shit for the most inane of reasons, in a tiny hobby of text-based make-belief games almost no one even knows exist?
On another level... well, I am on MSB a lot. It's not because I'm an admin, it's because I genuinely like you all. I like the debates we have and prize the constructive threads we come up, going into depth about designing new things and reimagining old ones. Having to interrupt that to go grumble because someone (often the same person I'm engaged in a reasonable, interesting discussing elsewhere!) called another person a fuckhead is just disrupting. Not dishearting, but it takes me out of that headspace and damn... I wish I didn't have to do that.
But I do. I still don't know why, but I do.
This requires both a clear eye to self and a willingness to speak plainly on their parts. I figure they've got at least 50-75% of that down pat. (<3 Please don't kick me off MSB o ye gods amoung mortals!)
If it was someone else I'd have assumed amoung was a typo or a spelling mistake. You made me google this crap up, and - not surprisingly - it was not. You will pay for that indignity.