The sort of negative person who puts me off of running is the sort of person who is disruptive to the whole process.
Someone who is negative or has a bad day once in a while isn't a big deal. Like you, @faraday. The times we've talked when you've needed to vent? That would never be an issue to me because you're proactive, inclusive, supportive: you provide value in immense ways.
The sort of person that I think @apos is indicating is... well, let me tell a story.
on Fallcoast there was this guy. Mage, playing a PI. From day one, he was off-putting to people. And I say day one because I remember when he was still in CG. Throwing fits on channel because Staff wouldn't let him be everything he wanted to be (and this was on Fallcoast where they were extremely lax in the rules). He wanted to be 21, a Detective, a college graduate, and a 'powerful Mage.'
lolno.
But he wouldn't stop bitching on channels about how unfair it was that Staff wouldn't allow it to happen.
He'd drive people off channels with this.
He finally 'settled' for being 24 and a PI.
Later, I ran a plot for the Law sphere folks. He paged me asking if he could take part. I told him OK, but this is specifically catered to the law sphere (now I had a Time/Space Mage in my sphere, so I'd already written the plot to account for mages; I was OK on that front). I said: 'If you want an 'in,' work with these guys. You're a PI, it's doable, but it's on you to work it out with the other PCs.'
Yes, I should have said no. But I figured ok, I'm not just a player ST. I'm a Staffer. I should give this guy a chance and try to help him out, but he's asking me the day of the scene about joining in, so I can't adjust a lot, but I'll give him a chance and there will be hooks. It's happening on the street, so it'll be easy to walk up. The business owner could hire him (the guy sort of handed him his card and brushed off the NPC overall... )... etc etc.
First round in:
OOC: Guy asks, "What's going on?"
Everyone else, OOC: "Uh, did you read the set pose?"
OOC: Guy says, "Oh I don't like reading those."
Continually, throughout the scene, this guy ignores my ST poses, then throws a fit when he's corrected. When the Law guys (the cops) take IC control of the scene and the PI waltzes up to them and goes 'Hey, you should give me the case' and one goes 'Well, give us your card and we'll call you if we need a consultant' (logical reply to a PI) he begins having an OOC tantrum.
One of the guys actually tried sitting down with him afterwards for a good half hour to explain why cops and PIs don't always get along and why his OOC behavior (not reading the ST poses, arguing with everyone, etc.) was problematic and all this guy did was continue to whine, complain, and have a general fit over how unfair it was that the scene wasn't adjusted and made to fit 'just for' him.
These, Fara, I think are the types of people Apos is referencing. The ones that are just overwhelmingly negative. This guy would have ruined me for STing for a while if the other guys didn't support me in return.