@arkandel said in Random links:
There's also the illusion of an apology - which in itself is supposed to signal regret. "I didn't mean to inconvenience you" doesn't mean anything when you bring a friend knowing it will cause an issue.
I prefer the "fuck you" response.
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Fuck you, Becky, for inviting someone we don't know to this shindig, as if it was all about you.
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Fuck you, Becky, for asking me to move to a shitty seat just because you want your wasn't-invited friend to have a better seat.
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Fuck you, Becky, why don't you move your ass to a shit-ass seat to sit with the friend that you inconvenienced the rest of us for?
Yes, I would be the person asking the following questions:
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Right from the start: "why did you let your friend tag along without asking or telling us first, Becky?"
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Then: "why didn't you tell your friend that you were going out with other friends, Becky?
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And then: "why don't you fucking grow a spine and a sense of decorum, Becky, so you could tell your friend that you're hanging out with others and there's no room here for her unless he/she/it gets her own fucking chair?"
This has happened to me before, and when asked to move, I simply said: "I'm comfortable here, so no." And when the "friend" gave me this vapid stare, I responded with: "I was here first, Becky; why don't you move?"
I don't talk to Becky much any more, but she was a fucking bitch anyway, and no one else had a heart ashen enough to tell a rude-as-shit egomaniac to go fuck herself.
Because Becky wasn't sorry to inconvenience us. Get the fuck out of my face with that "I'm sorry to ask, but -- " shit. If you're sorry to ask, then don't fucking ask.
Life's too short to be sorry for anything.