To prove my point about conflicting cultures (and thus, sadly, I don't think you'll ever please everybody @Kestrel):
@faraday said in Cultural differences between MUDs and MUSHes:
Here are the etiquette suggestions from one of my games, but they are by no means universal:
- Ask before joining a scene in progress.
On not all games this is a thing, but if you want to be safe, you can always do it anyway. If I'm in a public room I expect people to join if they want to. I kind of want them to, since that's why I'm in a public rather than a private room.
- If someone asks to join a scene, try to find a way to work them in if you can.
Within reason. Gotta give to receive, and I know plenty of people who think you've got no right to expect any interaction even if you politely asked. Me, I like to include someone who does ask, who make themselves intractable.
- If you really want a private scene, use a TP room.
This is something I'd agree with, but it also runs directly counter to the idea you have to ask before joining a scene (asking means you can be denied, which means people can totally have private scenes anywhere they like.)
- Avoid 'lurking' to watch a scene that you are not a part of unless you know the people pretty well. It sometimes creeps folks out.
I do think this is a thing. On every game I've seen this.
- If you are speedwalking through a room with other players, a simple OOC "Just passing through!" is polite.
Is this a thing? Admittedly I often do say 'passing through', but sometimes I don't bother. I don't really care if someone else says it.
- Ask before posing logs containing sensitive/private IC information.
Oh god yes. But still something that not everybody does or thinks is necessary. I've learned this to my chagrin.