@Lithium You assume I haven't!
Okay, actually, I haven't. Fair cop. NPCing that many people at once can get kind of exhausting, especially making each one unique and arousing, despite the fact that they're largely doing the same mechanical thing. Although I suppose people who are into those sorts of gangbangs would expand various erogenous zones. Hmm. No, wait, I think I could do it. It'd require some ceiling ties, and I tend to lose track of limbs even when there are only two people involved, but it's a challenge I could rise to. Or maybe it'd be more fun not to involve bondage, and instead 'catch and release', with the victim periodically let loose to try and run, while the rest of the guys hunt him down, pounce on him, and have another go. That would at least give the victim player something fun to do other than moan and writhe and narrate the tightness of various orifices. Ideally, the victim would be a fine, strapping man, a swimmer-type, not a football player, and the perpetrators a range of body types and endowments, just to keep things a bit varied and interesting. The only problem with that many men is that some of them would probably have to be pretty hairy to keep the variety going, and I'm not big into bears. Oh well.
So, see, it wouldn't bother me. It's not my thing, but I've been reading fanfiction since I was in high school, and that was a long, long time ago. Gangs of guys raping guys for the sexual titillation of the ladies reading? That's /Tuesday/, man.
The issues I have with this kind of moral panic have nothing to do with thinking the abuse of women is awesome. Actually, quite the opposite. The issues I have are:
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It reduces women to passive recipients of information, who then have no choice but to act out whatever unhealthy influences they're exposed to - which, as a woman, I find insulting and infantilizing.
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It's just another way to take the responsibility for abuse from where it belongs (the abuser) and put it back on the abused (whether they're a man or a woman). The ONLY person responsible for abuse is the person committing the abuse. When we say, "Oh, this kind of crap encourages women to enter into/stay in abusive relationships," it's just another way of saying, "Oh, she could leave if she wanted to/knew enough to/was strong enough." Anything that takes the responsibility away from the abuser, and puts it on the abused, is bad. The reasons abused people stay in abusive relationships have nothing to do with the fiction they consume, and it's actively harmful to efforts at helping them escape those relationships and reduce the acceptability of abusing one's partner to imply that it does.
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It's another way to control women's sexuality, by shaming them for having "unacceptable" sexual fantasies. Oh, no, you're not just indulging in something you find hot, you're /reinforcing the patriarchy/. It's the toxic underside of "the personal is political", and I view it the same way I view people shaming women for wanting to be stay-at-home mothers.
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Generally, it's more about looking at an acceptable target to sneer at "girly" things (see also, the disdain for romances), while giving /just as stupid/ "guy" things a free pass. Because everyone loves to sneer at women, especially other women, and if they can sneer at them "for their own good", even better.