@Arkandel said in The ethics of IC romance, TS, etc:
So let's talk romance/TS involving canonical characters. Are there boundaries involved and, if so, what are they? To get us started:
- Is it okay to create couples out of characters who are canonically with other people? Can (adult) Peter Parker date Captain Marvel?
Yes. And people who complain about this clearly haven't read many comics. Everyone has dated everyone.
- Is it okay to change sexual orientations in any way?
Yes, IMO, as long as you're respecting the core of the character. The fact of the matter is that people not exploring other sides of their sexuality until later in life is a hugely common aspect of real life in the society we live in, and I don't consider it counter-canon if someone says, "I want to explore the potential of this PC to maybe also be attracted to people of the same gender." It can get a bit finicky if you go from one end of the spectrum to the other, although, really, the comics have done this, too. (I'm one of the people who thought it made more sense for Bobby Drake to discover his bisexuality rather than homosexuality, although it's also true that sometimes people do have big realizations that cast their past relationship difficulties into a very different light. This idea isn't actually unrealistic.)
However, I think if you take one of the few canonically queer characters and alter that, it's different. Don't do that. If you make Northstar straight you're a jerk.
- After any of this happens and a character changes hands is it okay to revert them to the defaults in the same game?
I like to favor continuity wherever possible, but sometimes fresh starts can be necessitated.