You didn't "get in the middle of the stuff". You didn't like the way the RP was going and you had a fit instead of playing it out IC. You spent so much time lying about your identity that everyone knew it was a lie. You couldn't keep your story straight, and it just was weird.
I like you as a roleplayer and as an ST. I even think you're a pretty cool person to chat with. However, the emotional manipulation and the lying and the tantrums just are enough. I would happily play with you again on another game if you didn't pull that shit. You jerked me around, too, when I refused to have a Skype date with you, and I wonder where my apology is.