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    Posts made by Vorpal

    • RE: RL Anger

      @Arkandel This totally does sound like a mid-life crisis. Often along the lines of "I've wasted my whole life doing what everybody wanted me to do and I never went after what I really wanted. Oh, if I could recapture the glory days of my youth..." etcetera etcetera etcetera.

      I'm familiar with this because my ex-boyfriend (who is only 29) just went through a mid-life crisis at the quarter-life point and basically tried to contact me so we could get together, reminisce, hang out, and ultimately have sex to recapture those oh-so-rapscallious days of our twenties.

      I told him to talk it over with my husband, and that was pretty much the end of that. But yes, dealing with someone who is going through that is incredibly frustrating if you're not cutting enough.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      Kanye, I think it would help the conversation if you didn't jump onto the hyperbole mobile and drive it off a cliff shouting "Yippie kay-yay." Especially when you're putting words in someone's mouth that are not what they said.

      There's a gulf between someone saying" it's not creepy" and them saying "she totally needs to learn how to accept a compliment", and you're pole-vaulting across it with the joyful abandon of a ballerina on speed here.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: Mudstats

      Like sand shifting through the hourglass, these are the MUDs of our lives.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
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      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @Kanye-Qwest said in RL Anger:

      @Vorpal said in RL Anger:

      I've always wondered why people keep wanting to catch flies through all of these methods.

      Me? I swat them.

      ... I promise honest to god I am not a supervillain.

      Exactly what a supervillain would say.

      Therefore I would clearly not say it if I didn't want you to know I was a supervillain.

      Which I'm not.

      Which isn't something I'd say if I were a supervillain. On the other hand, it's something I totally would say if I were one but wanted you to believe other-

      Look, puppies!
      alt text

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      I've always wondered why people keep wanting to catch flies through all of these methods.

      Me? I swat them.

      ... I promise honest to god I am not a supervillain.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: Dead Celebrity Thread

      Letting George RR Martin script this year was a bad idea.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: Dead Celebrity Thread

      ... I'm getting real tired of your shit, 2016.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: Dead Celebrity Thread

      @Arkandel Now I'm fearing either Aretha Franklin, Betty White or Nana Mouskouri are next. They're all up there in age...

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      I have a theory that Sir Terry Pratchett is organizing the greatest concert of Music With Rocks In in the history of the universe.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: Dead Celebrity Thread

      And now Prince is dead.

      My dear David Bowie:

      Please stop inviting people to your very exclusive concert. Please.
      Sincerely, Vorpal.

      PS: Don't you dare invite Aretha Fraklin. I mean it.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      I should also note that Ecuador is now effectively as close to a totalitarian government as you can have without a full declaration. Journalists in Ecuador are warned on a daily basis about possible legal actions that may be taken against them. Newspapers are being forced to publish corrections, on the front page, with texts, headers and layouts sent directly from the Presidency’s Secretariat of Communication. The President has successfully sued a newspaper for slander, jailed its editor and imposed a multi-million dollar bail. Radio stations and newspapers are constantly being taken over by the government, and Our Dear Leader speaks to The People every Saturday through television, on a multi-hour televised block that takes up all channels.

      Sometimes, as John Oliver showed, those blocks include the appearance of local clowns. Outside of the President, I mean.

      The president who jailed a teenager for flipping him off.

      As horrifying as this might make me seem, I regret that the son of a bitch was visiting Rome at the time the earthquake hit. This may make me seem calloused and inhuman in the face of such a tragedy, but that is not my intention. If there had to be a catastrophe, the least it could have done was take out the other catastrophe with it.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @Arkandel Ouch. Ouch. I'd be lying if I said that my family hasn't been in that position before. Doing the right thing in these cultures turns you into a pariah... which we mostly are.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @deadculture said in RL Anger:

      @Vorpal Interesting. Was that why Ecuador switched to the American dollar as their national currency? To make money laundering easier, anyhow. How come there hasn't been a government to at least clean things up? Is it a shameless, kleptocratic oligarchy as with the rest of the continent?

      Not really- the switch to the dollar was organized by a rather unqualified president who thought it would solve inflation. But considering the government's level of corruption was a large driving force behind the inflationary problem... well. That didn't help one bit, as you can imagine.

      As to why there hasn't been a government to clean things up? It's hard to explain to someone who hasn't lived in the country... but as a native who got the fuck out of there a few years ago, I can tell you this:

      Ecuador is a corrupt culture. It suffers from severe soul-rot. The pervading cultural attitude is not "how can I make things better?' but rather "How can I take advantage of something?"

      Let me give you an example. My father worked in the government for several years- he was one of the people who fought to bring updated hydroelectric energy to the country. After many years of that, he returned to the private sector to work. For many years the rumor that kept going around in my father’s circle of acquaintances was “Nicolas is very smart! He’s keeping all that money he stole while in his government position hidden. Very clever of him.”

      Eventually, after a decade of that alleged money not surfacing and my father’s lifestyle not reflecting that of a millionaire’s, those acquaintances realized that my father had, in fact, not stolen any money while in the government.

      The consensus? That my father was an idiot. For being honest.

      This is not an anomaly. This is part and parcel of the Ecuadorean experience, where a phone company (state owned) employee will ask you for a bribe, while you are standing in line at the office, in front of everyone, so you can have a phone line assigned to you. The fact that my father refused to bribe anyone is the reason why we had to wait five years for us to get a new phone line.

      Ecuador is a rapacious culture that constantly elects politicians who are more and more populist by the term, and there is no such thing as outrage on the cultural level. The pervasive attitude is “You can’t do anything to change anything, so you might as well take advantage of it.” It’s the kind of sense of life that allows corruption to breed like a fungus. Living there, being part of the culture, is like having an enormous lead weight of a sky baring down on you. It is living with people who see all of these things happen and not give one shit about it- because everything is “can’t do.”

      The financial and political situation in Ecuador is a direct result of its culture and the values that culture promotes. There will never be a government that will attempt to ‘clean things up’ for as long as that attitude remains the pervasive Ecuadorean attitude.

      That's why I got the fuck out of there faster than the speed of can't.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @deadculture said in RL Anger:

      @Vorpal Most South American nations are like that, sadly.

      To an extent, yes... but trust me, Ecuador is on the "Did I step into a parallel universe?" level. I've had friends from Colombia who moved to Ecuador for a while who were completely at a loss and flabbergasted with the absolute bald-faced, no-shame, out-in-the-open level of corruption. People in most countries try to at least keep up a certain pretense... but not in Ecuador.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @Three-Eyed-Crow A note on Ecuadorean donations: Make sure that if you're going to make a donation, make it to one of the groups outside of Ecuador who are coming in to help. As a native from that country, I can tell you that the Ecuadorean government will not think twice about finding ways to pocket a chunk of the donations. It is exceptionally corrupt- far beyond what most people can imagine, the lack of shame is almost surrealist.

      The government allegedly had something close to a billion dollars that they currently can't account for (and the scandal is being hushed thanks to the country's gag laws), which is why the president is talking about opening a credit line for 600 million dollars for emergency relief. So... try to donate to something like the Colombian rescue teams or something of that sort.

      (You might want to spread the word about this, too)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @Kanye-Qwest said in RL Anger:

      You're going to make them feel attacked. Then they won't feel like this is a safe place for them, they won't feel like they have the trust they need to participate in this discussion about things that have no relevance for them.

      This goes a long way towards illustrating my earlier point concerning the barbed words and underlying hostility. I guess that winning hearts and minds is no longer an important part of conveying a message or supporting an important cause anymore.

      Well, that was that. I'm stepping out so that you may be able to form the echo chamber you so seem to desire.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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      Vorpal
    • RE: Tangent's Playlist

      Sadness 😞

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
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      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @Ganymede said in RL Anger:

      @Vorpal said in RL Anger:

      There is a distinctly barbed and hostile attitude in the core movement (not to mention a lot of high-grade insanity coming from the likes of Luce Irigaray), and a lot of the arguments are focused on (if you're familiar with the Three Languages Of Politics) the Oppressor---Oppressed axis, and very focused on not how to resolve the oppression (which would require a shift in axis and a re-framing of a lot of theory) but rather how to shift who is being oppressed.

      Seeing as how you've invoked Irigaray, I must invoke Foucault in response and state that, no matter what you do, you will forever be caught in a binary system of oppression, if one buys into power theory. That is, you have no choice but to shift the target of the oppression.

      I don't necessarily buy into that, but power theory does provide an interesting, explanatory model of history's struggles.

      I don't buy into it either as a practicable philosophy, but I was making the observation that these schools of thought do buy into it, and often spend more time pushing the pendulum one way or the other instead of getting a ladder and trying to find a way to cut it off completely 😉

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Vorpal
      Vorpal
    • RE: RL Anger

      @Thenomain As someone who is sympathetic to second wave feminism, I have to admit that the tactics, hostile language and argument framing that the third wave school has used has done a lot to damage the cause and alienate potential allies. There is a distinctly barbed and hostile attitude in the core movement (not to mention a lot of high-grade insanity coming from the likes of Luce Irigaray), and a lot of the arguments are focused on (if you're familiar with the Three Languages Of Politics) the Oppressor---Oppressed axis, and very focused on not how to resolve the oppression (which would require a shift in axis and a re-framing of a lot of theory) but rather how to shift who is being oppressed.

      The addition of identity politics also seems to have created further division and self-cannibalism in the movement (as a brief example- at a conference on feminism and identity, infighting broke out between white women, women of color, gay women, bi women, and it got to the point that there was also a sub-set of women with allergies who complained they were not being represented nor being taken into account by the larger group.) There is a very strongly marked "us vs. them" mentality in the academic core of the third wave movement- in fact, a good amount of subtext in the academic literature itself seems to encourage that outlook, and that unfortunately means it is not going to solve any problems... precisely because of some of the things Thenomian pointed out. You can't break a boulder merely by shifting who has to carry it.

      And the mirror image of the harcore Third Wave movement is, of course, the MRA groups. These devolve into sheer caricature because they are already a reactionary creation to a reactionary creation (hardcore Third Wave.) They're one iteration away from a Saturday Night Live skit. Yes, there are legitimate issues about the Third Wave movement that need to be criticized in an open and balanced discussion... and what the MRAs are doing is precisely not doing that. At the same time, there are legitimate issues that the Third Wave movement has identified, even if (to my judgement) the methods and arguments they have employed thus far are very problematic and flawed. That their methods may be severely flawed doesn't erase the validity of the complaints - but pointing out the flaws should also not be taken as an attempt to dismiss the complaints.

      Except, of course, when you have the raging cocks who go "Women don't face sexual harassment! It's all lies."

      At which point, yeah, kick them in the nuts hard, because they're being total assholes.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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      Vorpal
    • RE: Tangent's Playlist

      @justanothername said in Tangent's Playlist:

      Well, I appreciate the info! I will think about it. 🙂

      ... did I mention we have cookies? XD

      We don't have cookies. @Tangent ate them all.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
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      Vorpal
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