For me, I've been a fan of Star Wars since the original hit the theaters in 1977 so I very much consider myself a fanboy and I dislike The Last Jedi because I think it's a bad movie (not just a bad Star Wars movie but a bad movie period). I've never once thought the movie was bad because "OMG, wimminz are doing things!" I dislike it because I think it's a bad movie. I've also personally have not read anything from anyone saying "Well, the movie would be okay if they didn't have AN ASIAN in a major role!" How about the fact that I felt her and Finn's storyline was pointless?
All of my thoughts are marked as opinions, however, and I fully realize that other people very much enjoyed the movie. Which is great, I'm genuinely glad for them. I wish I enjoyed the movie more but I didn't. I guess maybe the "cool" thing to do would be to go on about how people with different opinions than mine are racist and sexist?
Maybe you didn't mean your post to be as offensive as I took it but I'm just a bit tired of this culture our society has developed of "Oh? You don't agree with me? Well, you must be a racist/sexist/*phobe/Etc.".