I was asked, at the time this all happened a year ago, by the fiancee of this person about the matter, as they were already aware of something going on, and were unsure if it was true or false. (I still don't know myself and was clear about this at the time.) That's who got the information and why; it did not go further by my hands.
I do not deny this for an instant.
Anyone who thinks of me as a monster is welcome to do so; it was no different than the screenshots shared with others in this conversation regarding things said about them, my own culpability wholly included.
I told you I did not go throwing this information around in whispers, and I don't. That I was making amends to others for my part in doing wrong to them was very well known at the time and no secret to anyone. That incident was not exempt.
Yes, other people knew about it at the time. Any time any of those people inquired with me prior to this, they were directed to you, full stop.
After you decided to go around making up craziness and spreading it to every discord circle in creation about me, when I was doing things like gathering up home goods for your new place and trying to be supportive of you without saying a bad word about you to anyone and telling others they shouldn't listen to the gossip about you and to give you a chance?
Yeah, you caused a lot of hurt with that garbage behavior. You don't care about any of that, though, and never have. You've never been sorry for any of the harm you did, and you continue to engage in the same behavior without a shred of remorse. (Spoiler alert: I don't. I learned my lesson.)
You want everyone to overlook it, but they should not. You hurt a lot of other people, too, and worse, you used me to hurt other people.
I still haven't forgiven myself for that, because I should have been smarter than that and realized that someone who constantly talks as much ugly trash about people as you do was doing it to me, too. But that isn't even really the problem. That would simply be fair play, all told! Listen to someone burn a bunch of people, you better damned well expect they're doing it to you, too.
There was one key difference: for a long time, I thought, 'well, at least it's real ugly things these people did' until I saw how completely unfettered from reality the things you were saying about me were and realized that the accusations and gossip about others was very likely to be similarly untrue. I am still horrified with myself for believing any of the things you said about others, because it made clear just how little you care about the truth, and how intent you are on causing genuine harm to others.
Hell, after the crap you said about the personal RL relationships between others on the forum for months, you sure have some nerve acting like this is the worst thing that could ever be done to a person when you violated multiple people for kicks in precisely the same way on record.
@thesuntsar Ghost was mentioned as someone currently blocked for taking part in the current round of garbage.
@tek Tell you what. There are screenshots floating around somewhere of the kinds of things Auspice was drumming up with others about me at length without my knowledge for months before any of the above occurred. If you don't believe people attempt character assassination in this hobby for trivial (or no) reasons, please be careful and vigilant. They absolutely do. You are a decent person and I would not want to see the same things happen to you.