Aug 18, 2016, 10:16 PM

@Roz said in RL Anger:

@Auspice That is a really awful, shitty situation and I'm really sorry about it.

Thanks.

I think today I just decided I had to give up. 26 years of my life have been spent trying to be a good older sister to him. Obviously I wasn't always the best, but no one is when they're younger. I tried to encourage him in extracurriculars. I've tried to help encourage him in jobs. I even, a few years back, helped him get a job at a fast food place a friend of mine managed.

A friend who went above and beyond, himself. He would hang out with my brother. Encourage him. Try to give him the easiest tasks to do. Vouched for him when he would piss off his coworkers.

But I just can't anymore. I can't handle having someone put themselves through the wringer (fucking up jobs because he'd rather sit at home and play games, taking whatever he can get his hands on just for the hopes of a high, etc) and then blame it on me over and over again. He's family, but I've got to acknowledge that there's even a limit to that.