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    Best posts made by Aria

    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @Ghost said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      @Auspice said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      Austin has no magic shop that I can find.
      And I don't mean M:tG. I mean 'place I can go to buy silly magic trick gimmicks because I'm a dork who likes them sometimes.'

      This reads like a Mage character's background.

      "She loved magic, but after looking high and low for a store that sold tricks and tools of prestidigitation to no avail, she noticed a door that she couldn't quite remember having ever been there before..."

      This is actually how at least one Bruce Coville book I read as a child started.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The Song Game

      @hedgehog Fugees - Killing Me Softly

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good or New Movies Review

      @Auspice said in Good or New Movies Review:

      @Aria said in Good or New Movies Review:

      @Ganymede

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      still better than Twilight

      Yep!

      And I will freely admit to having a soft spot for Cats. It was the first musical I ever saw on Broadway when I was a little kid and, at least at the time, the actors would go out of their way to physically interact with children in the crowd during various points when they're passing through the aisles. The dancing is wonderful. The songs are memorable. And the plot is definitely a bunch of anthropomorphic cat people having a dance off for the right to take a UFO to cat heaven.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good or New Movies Review

      @Groth I maintain that the prequels are all amazing movies -- if you just watch them with the sound off and make up your own dialogue like you're watching a telenovela on the day it pours during your vacation, so you're stuck inside watching hotel TV in a foreign language you don't really know.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL things I love

      @Auspice said in RL things I love:

      @Aria said in RL things I love:

      @Auspice said in RL things I love:

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      94 decks of cards in this photo.
      2 are not shown (one is a jumbo deck that was already packed, the other is the deck in my backpack).

      I am FAIRLY CERTAIN this is all of them. But considering I found 17 just packing things around my apartment, I may very well come across more.

      I need to figure out the best way to display them after I move. Keeping them in a box makes me sad.

      ^ Me but with Tarot cards.

      I only have about 8? decks of those.

      I have five I could reach without moving from where I am right now. >.>

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good or New Movies Review

      Saw Rise of Skywalker with my husband tonight.

      My desire to punch J.J. Abrams in his stupid fucking face remains intact.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      I've been watching Pandemic with the same horrified fascination that is proverbially associated with "trainwrecks".

      (JFC,pleasevaccinateyourkids. 0_o)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The Hockey Thread

      @Ghost You get an upvote because Danny Briere is, in fact, completely fucking awesome.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      I think the worst one of those that I ever dealt with was at a local university where I had applied for a position that is so, so, soooooooooo much closer to my house than the companies I've worked at for the last 9 years.

      They had a phone interview, an in person interview with the direct manager, a skills test, interviews with several other managers in the department, and in my case -- as I was told it was down to me and one other candidate -- interviews with the next two reporting chains up from the position. All in all? I lost three days of work, without pay, and had it confirmed from multiple people that I would be hearing back from them within the week.

      I think I called two or three times over the next month because I've worked at universities before and they're notoriously slow, so I didn't give up hope. (At one ivy league, I applied in September and started in January, FFS.) By the time I received a "thanks but no thanks" from the hiring manager, I'd already gotten the form rejection letter from their HR department -- three weeks earlier. It took her two and a half months to reply with an 'encouraging' note about how great a candidate I was and she'd keep me in mind for future positions, which at that point is really just insulting.

      Apparently, they have a tendency to wait until the new hire has settled in for a few weeks before bothering to cut the other candidates loose.

      Fun Fact: Their graduate school programs have tried to recruit me HARD for a couple of different Master's degrees since, especially after finding out that I tend to work for very large corporations that end up partnering with local schools for various MBA and MS programs and spend a lot of money to do it. Every time they call, I politely inform their recruiters that I'm not willing to attend a university that treats their prospective employees so poorly, shows so little professionalism, and give them that hiring manager's name.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @Arkandel said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      @Aria said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      Apparently, they have a tendency to wait until the new hire has settled in for a few weeks before bothering to cut the other candidates loose.

      Not justifying this practice at all, but it's because turnover in the first few weeks tends to be high. In fact there's a percentage of applicants who accept a position then use it as leverage to secure better compensation at their current job.

      Sometimes corporate policy is to hire then see if the person shows up and they're competent before letting anyone else know.

      Ohh, I know. I once worked at a place where I was training my backfill for a temp-to-perm role after they decided to hire someone with 'more qualifications' (read: better schooling/certificates on paper, but zero experience doing the actual job). He came in, worked for a day, said he had no idea how I managed the workload, then promptly quit. The manager decided this must be my fault.

      A year later, he applied for a position at the place I was working at the time and while I was breaking the supposed confidentiality of the hiring process in our department, I had to let my boss know about it as soon as I saw his name show up on the interview schedule because I suspected he might do it again, given that the roles weren't much different.

      So I get why companies do it. They're covering their bases and honestly, that's fine. The problem is that they treat people like shit in the process, when a direct statement of "We decided to go with another candidate for this role, but we also really, really liked you. Would you want us to keep your resume on file in case it doesn't work out or if we have another position open up?" would probably net them a yes and an expanded network of future candidates they could reach out to before even advertising newly opened positions.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      White People Problems: Bitching about the price of hummus.

      ....But I am also legitimately annoyed at the price of hummus. A single 8 oz tub is $4.89? WTF?!

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @surreality said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      I have a moderately obscure first name.

      I have seen it used in television twice for aliens/non-human fictional characters.

      I have also now seen it occur four times in various paranormal shows as the victim of a haunting, which is really a peculiarly high incidence. (Including that one time the preview at the start of the episode re-enactment kicked off with a creepy voice whispering MY OBSCURE NAME. Beads and cats suddenly flying everywhere as I yikesed, having been caught totally off-guard... )

      Dear Mom + Dad: Thanks for the weird name pick, guess you wanted me to get haunted. 😕

      If it makes you feel any better, I also have a relatively uncommon first name....

      And once had to sit through an entire class while I was finishing my degree where a room full of 20 year olds analyzed a book in which a character with my name had been sexually assaulted and while most of the kids were.... let's say "well-intentioned" in that discussion, there was a whole lot of talk about how victims are "supposed" to act and this character very, very much did not.

      Guess who had a panic attack in the bathroom and then a long chat with the professor the next week about a) content warnings and b) being the adult in the room responsible for giving the little shits some perspective on both the likelihood of someone in that room having been assaulted at some point and why most victims do, in fact, behave as said character did in such "wasn't violently attacked in an alley by a total stranger" circumstances.

      Like, good on those kids -- even the little sophomore boys! -- for recognizing that the way that scene was portrayed was definitely rape. They were so, so close to getting it right! But. BUT.

      really

      Fortunately he was my favorite professor and I was one of his favorite students. So we very much agreed on not relegating such subjects to the Women's Studies classes where they won't be discussed by the majority of the student body literally ever, but he was also super receptive to my suggestions on how to handle that book in the future.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @surreality Honestly, that book is a really good book. The professor was completely right about teaching it in the course not only because of the desire to avoid "women's issues" existing solely in an echo chamber where they'll never reach the people that most need to hear about them, but because the two instances of assault in the text and how the main character -- who perpetrates one and is traumatized by the other -- reacts demonstrates a sharp contrast in how accusations are dealt with based on race, class, levels of familiarity, levels of violence, and -- given that this was a South African novel -- history and politics in the region.

      Someone just really needed to put up some guardrails for the class discussion, including pointing out how said discussion fed into those very same contrasts and given that he's the 50 year old professor in a classroom full of 20 year old kids.... uhhh, that's you, dude. That's definitely you. He was very apologetic, sweet, and receptive about everything I said. I hope he's still covering that book, but better!

      As for the house:

      a) GORGEOUS. I want it now.
      b) Definitely haunted. Like, either in a good Harry Potterish kind of way where that's secretly the headquarters of a school for wayward magical orphans or something, OR it's a creepy murder house and everyone is gonna die, but definitely not anything in between.
      c) .....Is it just me or does the big painting in the background of photo #11 look like an abstraction of Death in The Seventh Seal?

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @surreality said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      @Aria I think my official irk of the day is that it isn't already my house, so yes. 😄

      Also, yes it does and I weirdly love it. I even love/hate the decor. (Some I love, some I hate.) The gargoyles everywhere? Original to the house. I MEAN...

      I stumbled across it a few days ago and was just dyin' because... yeah you always hear about 'that gorgeous huge old house that's selling for way less than it should' and you think 'sure, I hear about that, but I've never actually seen it happen... ' and, welp... seen it now!

      I mean if I absolutely have to get haunt-murdered... I'd like to do it there, plz.

      I feel kind of like... if you hang up giant weird paintings of Seventh Seal death in your house, you're kind of inviting ghosts to come murder you. Like that's basically just a flashing sign that says "poltergeists welcome here."

      Just sayin'.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @Ghost said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      @Arkandel said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      Pet peeve: Couples sharing their social media accounts. The "Nick and Laura" Facebook page kinda deals.

      Ugggggggggghhhhhhhh those are the worst, because I always kinda feel like that happens because one of the two wants to monitor the other's activity.

      I've usually seen it happen with the aforementioned old couples and also with middle-aged couples where the husband absolutely gives no shits about social media, like, at all and his wife is using it for keeping up with social calendars scheduled via FB or discussion groups for their kid's school or whatever.

      Which still weirds me out because like.... yes, Brenda. We all know you're carrying the mental/emotional load here. No one thinks that the birthday message came from Fred and we all know that asshole never looks at this, or remembers when parent-teacher conferences are, and is just going to tell us he "needs to check in with the wifey, haha!" if we ask him about next Saturday's barbecue. It's fine. It's fine. Stop making this more awkward than it already is.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @surreality said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      @Kestrel said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      Is it because they're being self-absorbed and making you do unchecked emotional labour without considering your current availability for it?

      This. So much this. So, so much this.

      There's someone that I have known for a long time that only pops up once in a while to demand counseling and emotional support while being abusive, or simply to be abusive.

      They became very angry when I said I was not available for that, and tried every angle of emotional blackmail to force the issue.

      But I am not a therapist. I am so not qualified to be someone's therapist. I am super extra not qualified to be someone's therapist when the time they choose to drop in to demand attention is fifteen minutes after I get off calming my own shit down to 'will survive the night' on a crisis hotline at 3am. Even when they were told this, none fucks given, I'm such a monster for not providing them support because they want it! They want it now!

      There is a very special hell for these people, so help me.

      Okay, so, how exactly did you become friends with my mom?

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Bad TV

      @Ghost said in Bad TV:

      @Auspice said in Bad TV:

      Supernatural should have ended where it was written to end. Season 5. They wrapped up the story nice and neat. Then it became the dead horse that kept being beaten for views.

      I gotta give it to the cast, though. Good on them for making good money across 15+ years on a show that I'm sure they're well aware is repetitive and tropey. You git that money, boys.

      I love Supernatural, but I love it knowing full well it's garbage. And really, so do they -- a fact which I give them full credit for. Everything after season five is best summed up in a quote from "Chuck", an in-world author writing Supernatural as a book series that is accurate to the character's lives before they happen* and which will later become the Winchester Gospels, because he's actually a prophet:

      "It's not jumping the shark if you never come back down."

      I give them full credit for the recognition of the general garbageness of the show and also that they continue to very clearly and obviously have of fun making it and a boatload of fun with their fans. Good on them.

      (*Yes, I really just typed that. >.<)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @Admiral Definitely press charges.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL things I love

      @silverfox said in RL things I love:

      Man, I get violently ill even thinking about tampons (I must be allergic to something in them, cuz within five minutes I get dizzy and sick to my stomach, same as any metal but surgical steel earrings.)

      People are stupid.

      The cotton/rayon blend in most tampons is bleached with chlorine so as to be that bright white color. You could be reacting to that.

      If you ever feel the need to give them another go, as weird as it sounds, try an organic 100% cotton brand like Cora. I know that sounds like weird hippie advice, but I know women that also have reactions to pads with that "dry-lock" technology because it's basically just a plastic mesh laid on top of the cotton and, unsurprisingly, having rough-textured plastic rubbing against your bits can irritate the delicate skin.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL things I love

      @Kestrel said in RL things I love:

      @mietze said in RL things I love:

      tampons are seen as virginity stealers or the gateway to whoredom

      Thank you, I'm stealing this plot concept for a horror screenplay.

      I just need help coming up with a title. Revenge of the Tampon? The Cotton Menace?

      Men's imaginations make for a wonderful source of inspiration.

      For your enjoyment, I present Teeth.

      Thanks to my American Gothic class when I went back to college, I once had to opportunity to gleefully explain vagina dentata to a classroom full of fairly sheltered and privileged students at a Catholic university. My professor was trying very hard not let his giggling show. It was great.

      ETA: Now that I think about it, given the number of absolutely ridiculous and absurd "facts" I have heard men claim about the female anatomy (remind me to tell you guys the story about me having to explain to my college roommate that no, he would not be able "tell" if his girlfriend had cheated on him the next time they had sex), I'm starting to think maybe we shouldn't have corrected that one? Like, how much better would it be if we just started telling 15 year old boys in health class that if you try to force yourself on a girl, her vagina teeth might clamp down and bite your dick off? Consent! It really matters now, fuckers.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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