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    Best posts made by BetterJudgment

    • RE: Tulpas or Roleplaying?

      @Wizz said in Tulpas or Roleplaying?:

      @tek said in Tulpas or Roleplaying?:

      What is a MU* baby?

      The fictional spawn of two PCs. I don't know how common taking it to that extreme actually is but I've run into it a few times on different games.

      In Second Life, there is a whole industry dedicated to virtual babies, including virtual baby bumps that thought-spams local chat with things like "Monica's baby tummy giggles. That fizzy drink tickles! Wheeee!"

      Admittedly, it was five years ago (about the last time I was in SL) when I saw that, but it still stands out as the kind of thing that puts you at risk for snapping and running rampant with a machete, screaming "Everyone must die!."

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Optional Realities & Project Redshift

      You all (both champions and detractors) are sure putting a lot of energy into something that within a couple of years will go the way of all such sites and become a cenotaph for its founders' grandiosity.

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
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    • RE: RL peeves! >< @$!#

      @Arkandel said:

      @Luna said:

      Unpopular opinion time...some revealing clothing should just not be worn by some people. And furthermore, we're back to don't be trashy. Revealing clothing isn't always trashy but some sure as hell is.

      I'll just talk about guys. Spandex-wearing guys that is, bicycle-riding ones. People who don't belong in tight-fitting athletic spandex-made clothes with brand names and logos on them. Come on, that's not an attractive look, and no one thinks you're an athlete because you're wearing $500 worth of athletic gear from SportChek.

      I knew a bicyclist who absolutely should not have worn spandex--not because he wasn't athletic (he was), but because his nickname seriously should have been Tripod. It was both intimidating and embarrassing.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Historical Mu* - Looking for interested Staff

      @tek said in Historical Mu* - Looking for interested Staff:

      Hold up. Historian here.

      The art of studying history isn't about empiricism. It's about interpretation and being able to draw from the sources to support your interpretation.

      I'd say simultaneously drawing from the sources you select and letting those sources shape your interpretation, but otherwise I agree completely. You also have to convince others (and yourself) why your interpretation of a particular part of history matters--what one of my mentors always calls the "So what?" question. Given how little historical research is actually read, that's probably the harder part.

      Anyway. Anything that gives a game a lively setting is probably good, but I'm probably not a good judge of what is lively. I loved the "1001 Nights" game I briefly played on and couldn't imagine a more fun and interesting alt-history setting, but that game was essentially stillborn. I don't know what people want.

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
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    • RE: RL peeves! >< @$!#

      @Sammi said:

      @BetterJudgment All of those fall under "attempting to educate" except for the wealth-sharing measures, and making these people better-off without also educating them would probably just encourage more kids. Thus, education is the only truly effective way forward.

      Too often, "education" means, "Here's how your could pull yourself up by your own bootstraps by being a good consumer and respectful corporate citizen. That is, if you had boots." Yes, real education is necessary (which is probably why college dropout Scott Walker and the plutocrats who have their collective hand in his colon pulling the strings that make his mouth move are crowing about decimating education in Wisconsin), but it is all necessary.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • BetterJudgement's Playlist

      Well, it turns out that I haven't played with any of you.

      I tend to stop logging in to games pretty quickly. The few characters that have made it for a while, in more or less chronological order, are:

      Bonaltham and a briefly held staff bit@Shadows of Isildur (an "RPI" MUD)
      Hannarr@Forgotten Kingdoms MUD
      Bellaegis, Candamon@Elendor
      Finnach@Akashat
      Arne@Windy City
      Arn@FireflyMUX (where I met Ravaun! Yah!)
      some character I don't remember @SerenityMUSH
      Macsen@Crossroads

      That's not a lot for ten years.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
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    • RE: RL things I love

      @Usekh said:

      Well despite my body trolling me with headaches, increased fatigue and some loss of function on the left side my scan came in good. Not clear of course but the main tumor has shrunk very slightly and the other two are still doing nothing.

      Also I have reached the point where further treatments will be subsidised. Thus saving me a buttload of money. Also My blood sugar has stabilised so no more insulin shots or testing 4 times a day.

      That's all good news. Earlier this year, my sister's cancer was found to have metastasized, and she has been on a lower does of chemo since that time. Her numbers have all come down, however, and she says that the chemo has been much less debilitating.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Fanbase entitlement

      Christ, this makes me despair for humanity. (And how about that guy's fandom, huh?) I mean, I've long said that I'd never get a tattoo because the only thing I could think of that I would want on my body for the rest of my life is Sam Elliott's. If I ever saw the man in person, though, I'd a) blush furiously, which is embarrassing when you're a guy in his 50s, and b) not approach him unless he were sitting at a table and signing autographs because getting in someone's face otherwise is simply rude.

      I know it's my fault for thinking that others do and should behave like I do, but how can you objectify someone so much that you'd do the things these links describe? People that do this must be fundamentally fucked in the head to the point that they totally lack empathy and don't recognize others' humanity. At least maybe it's mildly a good thing that the Internet makes it easier to spot the sociopaths, although I still think that branding them on the face isn't a bad idea.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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    • RE: RL things I love

      My partner and I have lived together for over 26 years. I love him and am connected with him more than I have been with anyone else in my adult life. But when he goes away for a week or so, leaving me and the cat to our own devices, it's awfully damn nice.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Sexual themes in roleplay

      I have TSed in the past but do longer do. The reason was pretty simple: even though I kept both hands on the keyboard, doing it is still arousing. This meant I was getting aroused with another person who is not my partner, with whom I am monogamous. So, I felt guilty, and I stopped. None of this affects what anyone else does regarding TS, and I don't care what anyone else does.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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    • RE: RL Anger

      @HelloRaptor said:

      @silentsophia

      It wasn't even a funny joke. It was more an outright insult.

      As @Ganymede said, I can't control how people choose to react. Whether or not it was funny, it was intended to be, if only mildly. I'm honestly not sure how anyone could read it as an insult (veiled or outright), but again, I've got no say in what you read into it.

      If a topic upsets someone and it's known, why provoke them?

      Maybe this just relates to the other shit you were talking about, but to be clear, if there was some post at some point by @Usekh saying "Hey guys I'm super sensitive about this so please no jokes, even little dumb ones, that use me and cancer as a framework." or anything of the kind, I never saw it. If there was, and if I had, I wouldn't have made the joke.

      The response to 'dude, wtf' wasn't very good, either.

      My response to what really were outright insults, you mean? YMMV, I guess. I felt they were pretty measured given what I wanted to type. I didn't even throw in any cancer jokes in my response to him. Almost as if once he'd made it clear they actually upset him, I didn't use them to provoke him. That didn't get him a get out of jail free card for how he framed his response, though. New depths? Really? 😞

      I'm not surprised that you're so practiced at excusing yourself. However, along with claiming that it's all someone else's fault because you meant to be funny, bear no responsibility for hurting or angering others, are supported by someone (@Ganymede) who people actually respect, and weren't specifically told that you shouldn't say dickish things about other people's terminal disease, you forgot to assert that it is all O.K. because you've said worse things in the past. However, you did drive your defense home by forcefully stating that your anger at what others say to you is righteous, while their anger at what you say to them is petty and unjustified.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL peeves! >< @$!#

      Sure you can graduate with a 4.0. Please don't resort to grade-grubbing, though (not that I think you would). Nevertheless, it is true that undergraduate GPA doesn't matter very much unless you're going to graduate school, and graduate school is frequently an awful idea.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL Anger

      My partner just got back from a day-long ride and left his motorcycle in front of the house with the key in--a bad idea, but he had just ridden 700 miles and wanted to come in and use his own bathroom right away. A few minutes later, I heard the bike revving, looked out, and saw some lowlife scumbag sitting on it after having started it and revving the engine. (It's a BMW sport bike.)

      I'm glad my pants didn't fall down when I ran outside, grabbed the clown's shirt, and started yelling for him to get the fuck off the bike, and I"m also glad that I barely maintained enough sense to take my hands off him once he did. I'm sure I didn't endear myself to our new neighbors (I just bought this house in a charming 1920s cul-de-sac) by screaming at the guy as he backed away down the street, especially when about every third word I yelled was "motherfucker."

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL peeves! >< @$!#

      @Admiral said:

      I took American Lit in college. The entire goddamn semester was Tennessee Williams. I was so, so, SO disappointed. Because I hate, hate, HATE Tennessee Williams.

      I had an English lit prof in a theater survey class who loved Tennessee Williams (although to his credit he had us read many other things, including Ionesco and Tom Stoppard). I wasn't quite intending to troll him, but I inadvertently did so when we were watching The Night of the Iguana. If you know the play, the innocent New England spinster Hannah Jelkes tells the story of being out on a boat with a sad and desperately lonely Australian business man who asks her to remove and let him hold an article of her clothing. She did so, and the man was satisfied. The exchange in class went like this:

      Me: I think Hannah Jelkes is a Christ figure. After all, the Australian business man touches the hem of her garment and is healed.
      Dr. T: (exploding) He was masturbating while holding her panties!
      Me: Well, there's all kinds of healing.

      Possibly some of my problems with students are simply karma.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Recipes!

      I really like soup, but I won't eat canned soup because it is overly processed and full of salt. I was really grateful, then, to find out how easy it is to make tomato soup.

      2 Tbs. extra-virgin olive oil
      1 Tbs. unsalted butter
      1 large white onion, finely chopped
      2 large cloves of garlic
      2 Tbs. all-purpose flour
      3 cups lower-salt chicken or vegetable stock - I use Frontier instant vegetable broth, which I buy in bulk
      28-oz. can whole peeled San Marzano tomatoes, puréed (include the juice)
      1-1/2 tsp. sugar
      1 sprig fresh thyme (or substitute about 1 tsp. of good dried thyme, adding it when the soup is at the simmer)
      Salt and freshly ground black pepper
      3 Tbs. thinly sliced fresh basil

      Heat the oil and butter over medium-low heat in a 5- to 6-quart Dutch oven that won't react to the acidity of the tomatoes. When the butter is melted and stops foaming, add the garlic (put through a press) and the onions and cook until soft but not browned. Add the floor to the pan, stir it in thoroughly, and let it cook for a minute.

      Add the broth, tomatoes (which I just crush with my hand in a large bowl), sugar--do not omit this--thyme, and 1/4 tsp. each salt and pepper. Bring to a simmer over medium-high heat while stirring to prevent sticking. Reduce the heat to low, cover, and simmer for 40 minutes.

      Discard the thyme and let the soup cool for about ten minutes. Then, carefully blend it in a blender or a food processor in 2-3 batches. Return the soup to the pot, taste, and add the basil and more salt and/or pepper as needed. If you want it to be really good, let it cool, then refrigerate it for 24 hours before reheating and serving it (warm but not hot). The recipe says it will keep in the refrigerator if you bring it to a boil every two days and that it can even go into the freezer for up to three months.

      edited so that it correctly reads "but not browned."

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: [Ethnicity Thread] Who Do You Think You Are?

      I think some of you are a little too conflict-adverse. Even with Cirno's posturing, this thread isn't all that bad.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL peeves! >< @$!#

      @Wizz said:

      Furious flirtation for a few days, and then the revelation that she was just on a break from her partner and they've worked things out. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU---

      Man, I think I'd consider that to be dodging a bullet.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: [REQUEST] Comprehensive MUSH experience

      @Jeshin said:

      Is there a reason the majority of the underlying systems for these games are nWoD / WoD? Is it because of the very graceful way that that RPG system approaches incentivizing RP? Is it just something that started and kind of stuck in the community?

      It's because of where you are. Many here were also on WORA, which was predominantly concerned with WoD games and had participants whose involvement with WoD and other MU* genres like Shadowrun and Pern dated back to the late 1990s. I came in much later and peripherally because I was playing on an Anitaverse MU*, but most of my experience has been on other types of games.

      At one time I would have recommended that you look at Elendor and especially at its combat and resource systems, but it is moribund. You might still get something from logging in, poking around, and talking to those still there. Even though The Greatest Generation is also gone, I bet at least some people here could talk about that game, which I bet would be right up your alley.

      posted in MU Questions & Requests
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    • RE: SerenityMUSH - Discussion

      I think that the Firefly "'verse" could be a very good game setting, in part because it's like it was sketched on a cocktail napkin. Space with no aliens, people who talk like Hollywood cowboys, cannibals, anti-establishment fantasies, lots of cool Chinese slang that's easy to use because nobody ever said it right to begin with... you could spend an afternoon watching the shows, and you got it. All you have to do is to not add in stupid things like pirates and staffers playing perpetual kidnap/rape plots.

      I've thought about making a character, but I realize that when I go on the game, I find myself asking things that basically boil down to, "Are you all still mired in bad craziness?" That's a fair question in one way, but in another way it's something that is really unfair of me to ask current staff and players. If I don't trust them, then I shouldn't be asking them to convince me that I can. Nobody has time for that.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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    • RE: [Ethnicity Thread] Who Do You Think You Are?

      Although my maternal grandfather's surname is Dutch, the ancestor of his whose history I know was from the duchy of Brunswick in Germany. My paternal grandmother's maiden name is definitely German, my paternal grandfather's surname is likely so, and my maternal grandmother's family name is English. I suspect on no good evidence beyond the name and country of origin that my paternal grandfather's family was Jewish not too many generations back. Needless to say, I have gotten second-degree burns from a summer afternoon at the lake with my shirt off.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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