@aria said in Good TV:
@highfalutin said in Good TV:
You on Netflix was kind of excellent. Super uncomfortable in the best way to be uncomfortable.
I just finished it. Having read the novel when it was released, I.... have complicated feelings about the show. I mean, I loved it. I really loved it. But the book made me deeply uncomfortable with its fascinating portrayal of the narrator and how truly disturbed and delusional he was. The show made me deeply uncomfortable with myself, because despite knowing from the very beginning -- even without being familiar with the book, so no spoilers -- that he's a fucking psycho stalker, I actually really liked him and was kind of rooting for him at the end?
I'm not sure whether that says more about the incredibly fucked up idea of 'romance' we have portrayed in media or about me, but either way, I'm sitting here pretty skeeved out by having thought to myself, "Aww, Joe. You'd be such a great guy if you weren't a violent lunatic." And this is from someone who reacts with an instinctive, visceral anger to the slightest hint of Nice Guy (tm) bullshit after horrible real life experiences growing up.
IMO, it's kind of the point.
People who are dangerous to you, me, and society at large--stalkers, murderers, etc.--aren't all bad, in the sense that there are a lot of parts of them that are probably good. It's just that they don't really manage to outweigh the bad. He's not a nice guy who jaywalks, or a nice guy who shoplifts, or a nice guy who does a little too much blow and forgets date night.
He's a guy who stalks, murders, imprisons, and has a skewed view on what is appropriate, what boundaries are, and his own entitlement... who is other than ALL OF THAT, usually a nice guy.
If you are only a nice guy for 5% of your existence, you're not a nice guy; you just seem like it.