@Pandora
I think the worst of it is that she was admitted into the hospital because the scans showed something in that area.   She's had ruptured ovarian cysts before, but this one was different -- that's why she went.  After scanning her three or four times, they provisionally determined that it was filled with fluid, that it was probably just a cyst or abscess, and sent her home.  And we thought: okay, that's not so bad.
She was referred to someone else, who said that there was some sort of solid mass there.  That usually indicated abnormal growth, which is an indicia of cancer.  Given my partner's history of cancer (neuroblastoma; skin (twice); kidney; thyroid; uterine), there's a better chance that it is cancer, but they're going to send the scans to a gynecological oncologist.
Of course, it's not her fault.  None of it is.  But it would be really nice if I could have 12 months without watching her being taken to an ER in pain or twitching uncontrollably.  I guess, after being with her for almost 13 years, I should be used to it, but you never do, it never gets old, and the pain still hurts as much as the first time.