@Ghost said in Emotional separation from fictional content:
Yourself having a food allergy, I hope you didn't feel like I was belittling people with such allergies. The statement wasn't about excluding people with allergies as a whole, but the all around risk in vague relation to MU-hobby.
If you think I thought you were belittling my people, I say to you: nigga plz.
To be blunt, I roll my eyes at the thought of risk in gaming. In my opinion, if the thought of risk in MUing comes across your mind, you should probably not MU at all, just as I would remind the average xenophobe that they ought to avoid playing Mass Effect games because omg fucking aliens is unpatriotic dey took err jerbz. There shouldn't be any risk in playing on MUs, and I believe this is @surreality's position.
I concur with it.
But it's impossible to predict exactly what risk exists. No one could have predicted that my partner would have a psychotic break one day at practice for A Streetcar Named Desire because she had repressed a sexual assault that she suffered in college. She never told me; she didn't tell anyone; but that made it no less scary or disturbing. But the issue was addressed quickly and calmly, and things returned to normal, because the people involved were empathetic, sympathetic, and caring. And I believe this is @faraday's position: you cannot stop all harms, no matter how many warnings you give, and no matter how aware people are, because trauma is a strange, disturbing, scary thing that pops up without warning a lot.
I'm going to keep eating at restaurants because I'm a foodie, and while I may not be able to enjoy everything everywhere, I still enjoy lots of it many places. The best we can do as a community is try to be accommodating without throttling the themes that we want to explore in relative safety.