It sounds to me like you've given this player enough opportunities to hook up and get the scene in that you have asked him (repeatedly) for. If he's actively logging in on other characters, and even RPing on his Sam character, he's being willfully rude and ignorant and you have every right to say 'screw it' and push on with whatever you need to in order to enjoy your character.
@Arkandel Absolutely not! I think cute only gets snarky with cute when MUing. And I don't let her mush.
Everytime I see this thread pop up, I misread it as "How does a Mu* become stressful?"
End of off topic posting. Carry on!
You could check out Fear & Loathing too. It's an nWoD GMC game, with some hacks between 1e/2e. It's growing at a steady rate and they have an incredibly active vampire sphere with lots of politics, scheming and a huge sphere-wide plot that's drawing most characters in.
There are a number of players that are European and GMT+ hours, along with quite a few that play EST daytime hours.
Spheres are Changeling, Changing Breed, Vampire, Immortal, Mortal/+
@faraday No, it's all comtitles in general. Long, short, (multi)coloured, cute. I'm just grumpy that way.
Love Jerry Lewis. Rest in peace. x
I don't want to be remembered. I want the nice words when I can hear them - Jerry Lewis
Update so double post: @mercutio 's solution worked. It was adding LANG=en_US.ISO8559-1 that did the trick. Thank you again.
Isn't Safe Haven Harbor by invite only? Or is it open to all now.
@ganymede So sorry to hear about your partner's further complications. Hoping for you all that it's not another cancer diagnosis. Sending good thoughts.
@Bristled-Thistle I had Fen (CB) on The Reach that was part of Salvatore's art community, and Rue (Gangrel) that bumped into a Jagger a couple of times. You may or may not remember the characters. 
Mine comes from My Best Friend's Wedding, a quote that stuck:
J : But that doesn't excuse any of it. I'm pond scum. Well, lower actually. I'm like the - the fungus that feeds on pond scum.
M: Lower. The pus that infects the mucus... that cruds up the fungus... that feeds on the pond scum.
@seraphim73 So very sad to hear this. I hope you manage to cram in as many good memories as you can into what time you have left. Thoughts are with you and your family.
Hi Shayd! Player of Marsia (Firan) here. The one that tossed all your plans under the cartwheels and claimed Nydias with the marriage prize 
Damn that was fun; had half the game cheering me and the other half insta-hating me. Good to see you're still around.
I don't have any problem with recycling characters. One of my favourites was a baby gangrel vamp called Rue. She started out on Fallcoast, and when that closed and RP dried up, I moved her over to Reno (v.1). She was there for a bit, but people I played with melted away, so she hiked on over to Fallcoast. There were still stories I wanted to explore with her.
Perhaps the saddest of all losses. Now all the mysteries of the universe he spent his life understanding will be unfolded for him. Rest in peace, Professor Hawking.
I remember Battimus stripping to the waist in the Forum and working out. Sweat. Muscles.... Eye candy moment!
@Admiral said:
I hate it when I'm TSing and I get 'bow chicka wow wow!' paged to me by a staffer.
This is something that has actually happened to you? From the way you tell it, it seems it's not a one off? That's kind of fucked up behaviour and I'd expect that staffer punished/removed. If it's acceptable behaviour, I'd not be logging into the game again.
Keeping Tem in my thoughts, and hoping for a great outcome for you. Recently lost one of mine myself, so know how you're feeling. At least he's getting the care he needs now.