My elder brother is a quadriplegic, going on 16 years or so now. He use to be my favorite person in the world, but he's slowly becoming that family member that you grit your teeth at and pick which battles you'll fight against their BS.
He gets especially nasty when talking about people who need government help. Housing/food/medical care, etc. As far as he's concerned they're a bunch of fraudsters.
What kills me most about the end is that HE doesn't have to work for anything. His housing, food, medical supplies, etc, it's all paid for by various government agencies. But because other people have "working" bodies then they should be able to get by without help. Only people with HIS level of difficulty should receive any help.
I'm happy to help and take care of him, but I'm also very much looking forward to going home and not having to grit my teeth/fight the urge to leave him hanging in a transfer between bed and chair utterly helpless after he's said something particularly bigoted, racist, anything-phobic or just generally hatetful.
#rant