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    Best posts made by silverfox

    • RE: The Work Thread

      Happy teacher today.

      I've decided my zoom meetings with my class are NOT going to be instruction based. They don't need a half-assed lesson from me with sound popping in and out and them not able to see what I'm writing. They need connection and a chance to talk to other kids. So, we're playing games. Today we did a "scavenger hunt" where they had to find something and bring it back to the computer to show. It was HILARIOUS. One of them was "Get a drink of water and drink it on camera." One boy came back, took a sip, and I said "ALL OF IT!" to which there was a sudden burst of laughing from a parent in the background with, "I TOLD YOU SO!" Another was "a family member" and we had sisters, brothers, parents (the father that did an impromptu dance for us was the best), dogs, cats - it was awesome.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: MU Things I Love

      Ironwool bathing suit

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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      silverfox
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @Ganymede said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @SinCerely

      My anxiety has died down knowing that the teachers are doing everything they can.

      As a teachers of 2nd and 3rd graders (7-8 years old) I appreciate hearing that.

      We're 100% doing the best we can and every ounce of grace we can be extended is a godsend. I've had an anxiety attack evert day this week and honestly, my zoomm this morning was a total dumpster fire. I needed to be able to troubleshoot with every kid... and I couldn't do that.

      Please go away COVID.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Diversity Representation in MU*ing

      A BIG problem, from within teaching, is our resources, absolutely. A few reasons for this and almost all of them can be fixed with money spent.

      1. outdated resources. My school is only 6 years old, yet the SS text we have is 10 years old by copyright date. What people were willing to accept 10 years ago is vastly different than now.
      2. attempting to make it "acceptable". If a text is controversial districts don't buy it, and companies like Pearson or McGraw Hill don't make money unless they can widely spread their product. It should be usable in NYC and Appalachia.
      3. age appropriate-ness. Verging on the far side of caution, horrible things, if they get mentioned at all, are described in the most general terms. This makes them feel like they weren't horrible.
      4. standards. Teachers have to choose what to focus on within the framework of our standards. At the elementary level social studies often is the subject that gets compressed/combined with literacy. When time becomes and issue we will choose phonics and text structure over the social themes in books. Force me to fight for a particular state grade or my school is punished? Yeah. I'll do it.
      posted in Mildly Constructive
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: The Work Thread

      My admin need to stop asking me for my opinion and then being taken aback when I give it.

      I have no fucks left to give and they should know this by now.

      I'm gonna take the talk about 'professionalism' tomorrow as my just reward for being the only person on staff willing to give my opinion fully.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: MU Things I Love

      I'm grateful that after I disengage for a week (no channels, no discord contact, etc) people are 100% welcoming when I have the energy to try to engage again.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      Woman's pants that
      a) don't have functional pockets
      b) don't go all the way down past my ankle

      Like, just stop it people; my ankles are NOT sexy, nor are my socks. Cover that shit up please.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Weird or unrealistic gaming... stuff

      I too, dislike the fact that we often feel pressured to respond to everyone. I get it! There are legit reasons! But yeah. I ❤ my friends who will let me one line at them in a conversation because... it's a conversation.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: The Work Thread

      I narc-ed on some children who didn't finish their test today by texting their parents. At the end I included, "If you have questions call me at X."

      Ten minutes later I get a phone call.

      child "Hello Mrs."

      Mrs. "Hey Y, what's up? How can I help you?"

      child "I think you know..."

      Mrs. "Yup! Let's get that math test open."

      I've had a panic attack every day for the last week, but this made me laugh so I'm gonna cling to it.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: How are you coping with COVID (and other 2020 fun)?

      I haven't coped very well. I cycle between being okay and being depressed petty card core. I've found I have very little left in 'reserve'. It takes almost nothing to shake me and as a teacher that means I spend a lot of time shaken.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      There is a possibility I might be able to move into my dream position at the school I'm in currently. (We're on better terms now that Admin have started to be more open about mistakes that were made this year and have actively attempted to make change.)

      Possibly.

      POSSIBLY.

      I am trying to manage my expectations but it's hard when I just want to jump around and clap my hands wildly.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Critters!

      This is the very last kitten photo. We had to take them back to the shelter so they can be put up for adoption.

      So so so many tears. 😞

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: RL Anger

      @duntada

      That does make me feel better!

      I hope he isn't in the hospital for weeks. Their nearest hospital is an hour and half away from home so it would be really rough on their family, plus he is the only breadwinner now that sister's work is out for the summer.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Critters!

      Our three oldest foster babies had to go back to the shelter last night, including the baby I had fallen head over heels with- Hermes.

      I cried, a lot. Husband is soothing his sads by claiming the four youngest babies (who we will have for about two more weeks) as his work buddies and I'm cuddling with one of my babies, Lyra. This is the calmest she has been since we started fostering.

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Critters!

      We officially give these four back to the shelter on Sunday and I am going to miss them like mad. We have had them eight weeks (basically all summer vacation for me). They were less than 1 pound when we got them, and now they range from 3lb 4oz to 3lbs 15oz. They've had four different antibiotics to get healthy and have gone through two scratches.

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      Lady Rhea (white) and Castor (tabby)

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      Persephone (gray) and Pollux (tabby)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Critters!

      Also, update! Their brother got his surgery today and is healing up well in the home of the shelter manager.

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Critters!

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      Calypso brings me so much joy I can not describe it. Her trust in us is complete. I know my elder cats love us and are happy to live in our home, but it isn't like what Calypso feels. It is so pure.

      I'm going to cling to these moments as long as she will give them.

      ***sad content***

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      This was brought into clear focus this week, because the shelter I work with lost one of their resident cats (a cat that just can't be adopted out, this one because he would be a sweet baby, and then savage someone at random) this weekend, and it happened without any warning. One day Simba was the lord of their back room, hunting any mice stupid enough to sneak in from the overgrown lot next door, and being his sweet/savage self. The next day he was struggling to breathe and they took him to an emergency vet. He was diagnosed with leukemia and was told the best thing they could do is help him over the rainbow bridge before he suffered more. They had him for eight years, and suddenly he is just... gone.

      The timing of his illness was either just sad or blessed.

      Because he was so unpredictable they kept Simba in their isolation room, which is actually this huge room they use for storage (food, beds, cleaning supplies, etc) Since he was the only one back there he had free reign of the room. Only a handful of people were allowed back there who knew how to react properly when he took it into his head to attack.

      This room was... ill organized. Since only a handful of people were allowed back there it ended up just a complete mess. They are right next to an overgrown lot too, so mice would sneak in and nibble at the cat food if a bag got ripped. Simba helped there by acting as a mouser and protecting the food supply from the mice.

      Well, this last Saturday they'd decided enough was enough. They closed the shelter and 20+ people showed up to clean it out. Simba had to go into a cage for the day, but that was okay. We took EVERYTHING out - including the shelving and gave it a deep clean. We even scrubbed the foor. Then we went though everything Marie Kondo style. Any food they didn't feed their cats that had been donated was set out to be picked up by a pet pantry. Any expired food was picked up by an organization that feeds ferals. Old supplies were tossed. New shelving was finally installed. It looked like a totally different room. We could see from the front door to the back door! They put in six large cages for cats in need of isolation care for longer than just a week or two. (Big 4'x3' kennels).

      That night they let Simba back into his new domain. In the renovations he had gotten a new bed, and a new climbing tower just for him also.

      Not 24 hours later he was gone.

      Either it is sad because he never got to enjoy his newly cleaned home

      Or

      It is blessed because Simba had been sick for a while but knew it was okay to show it now that his services as mouser weren't needed anymore (aka, there were no more broken bags of food, the floor had been disinfected to remove any scent trails, all remaining food was up and out of reach...) and he could go home knowing the shelters isolation room would stay safe.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: The Work Thread

      My husband is unhappy at his job and is on the 4th round of interviews for a totally new position. It is a government job with all the perks attached (most especially a Colorado wage vs the Arizona wage he is right now earning). It would be the first step forward he has tried to make in his career in 5 years after bottoming out from a toxic work environment.

      I'm praying so hard.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
    • RE: Critters!

      Cinderella

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      Play-doh
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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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      silverfox
    • RE: The Work Thread

      Had my mid-year evaluation and my evaluator said that it seems like my position was made for me. I laughed but didn't say,

      "That is because you guys didn't write a job description. It was, "we have covid dollars for learning recovery so we can hire someone." Everything beyond that I wrote for myself. Everything I do (beyond coverage) is what I have decided needs done. Having autonomy is a HUGE part of job satisfaction. A majority of what I do I enjoy and even the things I don't like I can do the way I feel best does them.

      So yeah. My job is literally tailor made by me and for me.

      .... also I want to be utterly invaluable so that somehow they find ways to keep my position when the grant ends at the end of next year. I don't know how I could ever go back to the classroom full time.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      silverfox
      silverfox
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