@misadventure Thank you for sparing me the dreaded double-post to add that, since my awake-too-long brain missed that bit and was about to ramble it out in likely nowhere near as concise a form.
I see a lot of '...uh, is this a thing I should be worried about?' sometimes, so I don't rule that out.
Some folks only feel they should bug staff once something is glaring a huge, and want that sounding board. I sorta hate this, because I'm one of those folks that, when I staff, I'd rather hear about little shit that unnerves or bugs someone, since even if that specific thing is not actionable, if it becomes a pattern, that's a lot more easy to see and more directly address. But if they're going to sounding board it first, I'm not gonna hold that against anybody. I've been there, too, not sure if something is what I think it might be and wanting some feedback before I report something.