Nov 13, 2018, 3:27 AM

In any case, as can be seen from many of the responses here (including mine), this is a pretty complex issue, and just saying, 'Well, don't get raped,' and 'Don't do this and you won't get raped' is very simplistic; that it's espoused by cops is especially difficult to listen to.

Quite a few of us have been assaulted, violated and traumatized and this logic has been used against us. I don't know that more words of my own will help get that across, so at least for now I'll leave things at that.

I know, also, that the suggestion Derp made wasn't out of malice, but that doesn't make it any less frustrating.