May 8, 2017, 12:10 PM

^^^ Exactly.

Adult-rated games have adult-rated themes and events and RP.

If you cannot deal with a subset of those themes, it is on you to advertise somewhere, in explicit language, what you cannot, will not RP or be involved in. On a game where dark, horror like themes are the norm - maybe you should have a few notes on what your triggers are. On a teen-rated game, one wouldn't expect the 'norm' of RP to include butchery, rape, soul-ripping, whatever, (such RP may be explicitly against TOS/Policies, too) so it should stand to reason that people shouldn't have to have notices about those things.

The onus is on you for 50% of this.
The rest of the onus is on those that run scenes, scene with you, for the other 50%.

Oh and while I'm at it: waiving your rights by explicitly asking for a scene with someone should also waive your rights for complaint after the fact, if the scene generally went in the direction you asked for. Complaining after the scene should get YOU disciplined, not the person that you talked into your requested scene. That's some for of bullshit entrapment, and should rank right up there with falsifying logs to 'prove' someone was cheating in combat scenes.