Most decent folks would have the fucking backbone to tell the sad-eyed girl: sorry babe I have plans today; dick later?
Noooooooooooooo. Not here. That is not the way that we are wired/raised. Being secretely/underhandedly shitty to someone? Absolutely. That is par for the course. Being even the tiniest bit rude to someone's face will abdolutely, without a doubt get met with ostracism and scorn.
Rural Indiana is a weird place. We will absolutely fucking you over, just never to your face, or without a smile/"Bless your heart."