@Sparks said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:
Finding a comfortable, durable bra is like finding a unicorn.
Sadly, I have not caught any unicorns recently.
Ladies, ladies.
Herroom.com is the secret. Thousands -- yes, thousands -- of bras that you can sort by size, style, feature, brand, color, general taste (sporty versus sexy, etc). Also, they have a discount off your first order. Also, they sell discontinued colors from normally very pricey brands, which is how I have a drawer full of Wacoal, Natori, and Chantel bras at prices you normally see at Kohl's. And again, since I have boobs the size of an adult human head, that means I'm buying bras that normally range from $60-$100 for $30-$50.
Granted, my bra and my panties never come as a fancy matching set as a result, but I maintain that women who manage that without at least a week of carefully planned laundry are probably witches with some kind of hell-power, anyway. Like women who can do winged liner in one try. Or look cute in cap sleeves. It's not natural.
(To note: They do SELL the matching panties on the site, but fuck you if you think I'm shelling out $18 for a single pair of underpants. But I dunno. You may be willing to spend more on covering your butt. As the kids say, YMMV.)
ETA: I recommend using the "universal cup size" search filter if you're over a D-cup, since the States and Australia are the only countries that does this weird "D -- DD--DDD-G-H" nonsense. The UK does "D-DD-E-F-FF", which also makes no goddamn sense, and continental Europe does "D-E-F-G-H". Japan goes straight through the alphabet but skips the "AA" size, so it's like European sizes except they're all off by one. Just save yourself the nosebleed and use the automatic converter and it'll search their database all at once for the right size regardless of where the bra is made.
PS: Dudes reading this comment? Bullshit like the above is why your girlfriend is always angry about something. The more you know. <twinkling star arch>